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rm_djtriplexxx2 54 M
1  Article
The do and don'ts of....   12/13/2005

Ladys do not tell a man in your profiles that you want a nice guy, they are out there so don't be so picky! I AM ONE!


2 Comments, 96 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
Do not report to Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat, you'll ruin eveything!!   12/12/2005

My husband, Stud Puppy received an E-mail from “frigginDoIt” while seeking out his FWB (I’ve already found mine, thank you) and “she” turned out to be a con trying to get people to register at another on line sex web site. I told him not to report “her” to Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat because they will just shut down her personal and then ...


1 Comments, 212 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
What would you think?   12/12/2005

What would you think if someone was interested in getting to know you better, but revealed to you that they were a virgin? Would you accept it or stop talking to them?


1 Comments, 272 Views, 0 Votes
thepoetflowit 42 M
1  Article
Where are all the sexy ladies at?   12/10/2005

So I'm just wondering... Where are all the sexy ladies at? Had my profile on here for weeks now and not a response.. is it me? What do I do to get some more hits or whatever? <br> Jerome..


3 Comments, 1886 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_GoodFella_CS 51 M
2  Articles
“Bi” Confusion... What's with the Double Standard...   12/9/2005

I confused about something... I’m a bisexual male who gets zero responses from emails and “winks.” I posted a question about this last week and got a few responses from women who told me that they won’t get involved with bi-males, but they are bisexual or bi-curious. What’s the difference? Is this a double standard? Why is it o.k. for a women to be ...


1 Comments, 184 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_NotAnAngel29 48 F
2  Articles
Is there any such thing as sucking a dick too hard or a womans breast suffocating you?   12/8/2005

Ok I am married and hubby said I sucked his dick to hard and that my boobs suffocate him...I don't get it. My boobs are not that big. What man says stuff like this? I don'g get it. I mean my huby is 11 yrs older than I am and you would think if I walked up grabbed his cock and said come fuck me he would. I can't honestly say he isn't or is cheating but how do you know and should his ...


16 Comments, 354 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
xxxcjs 46 M
6  Articles
mmf 3some   12/6/2005

How many couples out there eve thought about bring another male into the bed room.


2 Comments, 287 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
STD'S   12/5/2005

Isnt anyone afraid of contracting a std? I read about gang bangs, glory holes, swapping Isnt anyone afraid of catching something?


1 Comments, 231 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
We_r_in_love 49,1944 C
4  Articles
Hair or no Hair?   12/5/2005

WHat do men perfer women with hair or no hair? I perfer my women with no hair or very little. But I know some guys that love a women with a lot of hair. How do women feel on this subject?


2 Comments, 223 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Any advice Wifes Vagina.   12/3/2005

For about 2 months my wifes vagina had a very bad smell to it, Even after 2 to 3 days and me taking showers, my penis would still have the smell on it. She has always for 18 years had a very clean, pleasant, tasty vagina. And then this? 2 more months have passed and she is back to normal, very good stuff. I did not talk to her about it, and was somewhat suprised she didnt say anything. ...


4 Comments, 546 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Faith and Sex   12/3/2005

Hi all, we are a deeply commited religious couple who believe that our sexuality is a gift from God.We also do not go along with much of what is taught by traditional religions that sex is dirty.we would like to hear from others of faith who are involved in this lifestyle since we are considering the same ourselves.please lets us know of your experences.Thanks share


1 Comments, 222 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
mistressneeded3 57 M
2  Articles
Shy guy looking for way's to hook up with hot ladies   12/2/2005

I am a very shy guy have never been agressive with ladies and have always been afraid of rejection from hot ladies.... does or has anyone ever been through this .... does any hot ladies have any sugestions on how an average slim guy can get lay'ed buy hot ladies with out making an ass of my self... Thanks for any suggestions....


2 Comments, 259 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
pinmsa2 51 C
98  Articles
Recognizing a Stroke   12/2/2005

Recognizing a Stroke <br> A neurologist says that if he can get to a stroke victim within 3 hours he can totally reverse the effects of a stroke...totally. He said the trick was getting a stroke recognized, diagnosed an getting to the patient within 3 hours which is tough. <br> "RECOGNIZING A STROKE" <br> Thank God for the sense to remember the "3" steps. ...


3 Comments, 171 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
rm_HoRnDoG19862 38 M
2  Articles
what would you do????   12/1/2005

Hey I was wandering if I could get as many people as I can to tell me if you would cheat or try and y if you were in this situation I am in. You see I am a 19 year old male with a 35 year old woman. I care for her truly but at the same time dought her feelings for me. You see I am stuck in a rought I am on probation for some false charges out of galveston from past times in c. p. s. ...


1 Comments, 230 Views, 0 Votes
rm_HoRnDoG19862 38 M
2  Articles
well if thats it then I guess thats that   11/29/2005

this is refering to funloveing2cpl post to my last question I never thought after geting your response in the relationship mag that you would say that but here it go's.I am not useing her just that she said she would do these things so I accepted it but now that you think of it haha I have felt like that for a while......and hated every thought so it's not that she realized anything but ...


1 Comments, 156 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Average Penis size   11/29/2005

What is average size for a penis? What is considered small? what is considered large?


2 Comments, 445 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
mambo7947 47 F
3  Articles
Meet? how soon?   11/26/2005

I have never felt that a person on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat allowed me to get to know them enough so that an in-person would be safe/comfortable. Why do guys think that "hi I saw your picture - let's get together this weekend" is even remotely acceptable???


4 Comments, 282 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
rm_lickmepretty 47 F
2  Articles
If I wriggle the toe of my shoe into your crotch at dinner will I get a "rise" out of you?   11/26/2005

Tell me boyz, do you like it when a woman plays footsies under the table? <br> Teasin' you as she works her way up your pant leg, either running her bare toes under the fabric of your trousers or just grazing her shoe clad foot along the top of the fabric and teasing your groin? Does your cock get all "hippy-happy"? Is it ...


4 Comments, 182 Views, 13 Votes ,6.00 Score
What should I be looking for first in a person?   11/26/2005

I took a chance, and bought a one- (1) month gold membership. I wanted to read as many of the ladies personals as I could in thirty- (30) days, and to check out (at least a little bit of) the local male competition I have with men within my own age range, and hopefully, to meet my soul FWB. <br> After reading all those personals (M and F), and writing to a few select women, ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 0 Votes
What's a girl have to do?   11/26/2005

I'm very imterested in exploring sex with another woman, but it seems that either I have to want to play with a man too or no one will give a lady like me a chance. Admittedly I have no prior experience with another woman but I am not expecting to just jump into bed with another attractive lady! Acually just the chance to chat with another woman who likes both men and women to get some ...


1 Comments, 110 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
So you wanna get kinky, eh?   11/25/2005

I am asking the ladies of this site if they'd be game for putting a little variety into their sex lives? <br> Would you be up for : <br> 1)Light bondage (having her hands restrained, being blindfolded, and/or being spanked)? <br> 2)Exhibitionism (sex or being exposed in public)? <br> 3)Videotaping sex? <br> 4)Sex toys during sex? ...


1 Comments, 112 Views, 0 Votes
SEVENHORSEPOWER 55 M
12  Articles
MISTAKES MADE BY MAN IN BED   11/25/2005

MISTAKES OF MAN IN BED <br> <br> 1) NOT KISSING FIRST. Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out non essentials. A properly passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay. <br> 2) BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR. Admit it, some at school ...


2 Comments, 256 Views, 10 Votes ,5.77 Score
I'd like a MFM threesome.   11/23/2005

My wife and I don't have a very satisfying sex life. I've been giving a lot of thought to a MFM threeway with her. I'm not sure how to approach her with the idea. Anyone out there got an idea?


2 Comments, 227 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_longin2luvya 75 M
2  Articles
Vertically challenged men   11/23/2005

Years ago, a popular pop singer recorded a tune entitled "Short People". The gist of the tune stated that he didn't like short people. <br> I'm a "shorty" and would like to know why most women find us short guys so un-appealing. The vast majority on this site are looking for tall men. Cmon, us lil dudes can hang with the best of them. <br> Show the lil guys some love!!


3 Comments, 120 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
rm_saltyc1015 52 M
1  Article
How can i actually meet people from Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat?   11/23/2005

I have beenusing this site for years and have never actually had to opportunity to meet any ladies from my area. i use the chat room , i have been a gold member, i post pics and try to talkt o people from my are...(that Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat says are compatable), but noone is ever really intrested. What am i doing wrong? anyone give me some advice?


0 Comments, 113 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
rm_seychellois1 58 M
4  Articles
confused and frustrated   11/23/2005

I like to think i have a reasonable personality, looks wise i guess it depends on the person. but i have had from female friends and other women some positive comments as being good looking to okay. I will admit to to actually sometimes just the one night thing. which i still believe honesty what is happening, and also still treating a woman with some kind of respect. after all we are both ...


0 Comments, 196 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
is he cheating....   11/22/2005

We do still have sex, just not very often. Says he just into it lately, says he thinks he is going through a mid life crisis? Should I believe this, or starting wondering if he is getting it else where? Guys would really like to hear your opinions


4 Comments, 528 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
HotNbutered69 47 F
1  Article
Thinking of selling body til i catch up on money.   11/21/2005

Money is tight right now with work being slow.I need some tax free cash for a few weeks and thought about doing a few guys for some cash.I have done it once before when i did dancing.I figured bacholer parties would be a good way to make some Money in one shot.I know many look down on this but it is the oldest business around.Just tring to figure out a way to make a lump of cash faster thsn ...


6 Comments, 403 Views, 7 Votes ,0.75 Score
things that us guys find annoying about women LOL   11/21/2005

1. If your good looking you don't have to remind us every 5 minutes. 2. If you don't like the way we do the laundry then don't ask us to do it. After all what is the big deal with seperating whites with bright colors. Same dirt same load LOL 3. This is for women that like fast sex. STOP wearing pants so tight that it takes a come-along to pull them off. 4. And I'm serious about ...


1 Comments, 121 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Need a little help   11/20/2005

I have a simple question what does it take to get some attenetion on this web site. I tried to have a detailed profile and I even became a gold member but I still dont get any responses can any one help.


2 Comments, 169 Views, 0 Votes
rm_hotbtweenlgs 69 C
24  Articles
Lessons Learned   11/20/2005

Learned lessons--- <br> I've learned that you cannot make a person love you. All you can do is stalk them & hope they panic & give up. <br> I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people are just assholes. <br> I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and it only takes, suspicion, not proof, to destroy it. <br> I've learned ...


0 Comments, 452 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
fargocople 47 C
14  Articles
What to do?   11/20/2005

We are a couple that has been together for 2 years. We recently started swinging and the question has come up about having the s/o ex-gf/bf be the extra female /male in the mix. What do other people feel about this? I myself am not sure what I think about this.


1 Comments, 259 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
mmfun66 57 C
4  Articles
What do you think?   11/17/2005

I have read in magazine articles about the so called sexual peaks of men and women.Most of the articles claim that a man reaches his sexual peak around the age of 20, while a woman doesn't reach hers until her mid-30's. I find myself agreeing with this.Honestly, though I believe it works out just fine this way. Now that my husband is older, I get a lot more foreplay than I did when we were ...


1 Comments, 266 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
rm_OneGuy330 40 M
1  Article
what is wrong with me?   11/16/2005

i seem incabaple of making the right decisions when talking to girls in real life, I'm now 20 years old a virgin, only kissed a few girls, and i feel like shit. <br> i'm not a bad guy, im considerate, nice, i go out and drink, im not unnatractive but no ones ever interested. <br> i sign on this website and i hit up even the most sexually otugoing women here and no one ...


5 Comments, 508 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
What do you think?   11/15/2005

Ok we just moved down to Tampa and my girlfriend is in the middle of job hunting. She's in the medicle field and although she has alot of experience in the field...there is so much redtape to go through for each interview she goes on. And she has been applying everywhere, but waiting around for all the background checks ect. just lets the bills pile up even higher. So heres my ...


2 Comments, 245 Views, 0 Votes
rm_hotcpl2fck 47 C
9  Articles
I want to see a black man FUCK my wife. I think?   11/14/2005

Lately I have had a fantasy about seeing my very sexy wife get fucked by a nice size black cock. I also have been wanting to see her with 2 or more guys at once. I love her very much. sometime we are very cheesy and very loving. But thinking of her getting fucked by a nice hard black cock turns me on some much. Is something worng with me.


7 Comments, 1051 Views, 12 Votes ,4.57 Score
Help, I need some advice   11/14/2005

Hi all, and thanks for taking the time to read this. I have been married to a great woman for a little over 5 years, we get along great, we have alot in common, and yes I do love her, however one thing that we don't have in common is our degrees of sexuality. I have always had a pretty high sex drive and had some great sexual experiences before marriage. Unfortunately my wife does ...


2 Comments, 506 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_shyheather 45 F
1  Article
Is it wrong to just want sex?   11/14/2005

I've just recently gotten out of an abusive relationship, moved to the other side of the country (and back to the us from canada) and started a new life. I like sex. I want to have sex. I don't want to seek out a commitment. I don't want a serious relationship but if one happens I wouldn't turn it down. Now my question; is it worng to only want sex? How honest should I be when I meet ...


7 Comments, 688 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
speedfreek2773 51 C
12  Articles
red wings   11/13/2005

so how many people have done it or have had it done to them eat or be eaten at that time of the month and how was it to give or recieve


2 Comments, 669 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
justforfun410 67 M
1  Article
Just when I was haveing fun,Love bites me !   11/13/2005

Yes , right so it goes.when your not lookin to fall in love it sneaks up behiend you and !!!!!! Dam !!!! though theres a problem . shes attached So I get what I asked for ...some fun , now and then .but I feel like it could be so much more .Maybe thats just because I cant have it all though ! What do you think? I think she lights up my life , makes me smile , has a great attitude, not to ...


0 Comments, 560 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
fatmushroomtip03 47 M
7  Articles
what to do?   11/11/2005

What do you do if your wife or husband doesn't want to swing, or add a third to the equation? I've tried just fantasizing that her dildo was another guy going deep inside her, or masterbating thinking about it....but it just doesn't cut it! I want the real thing and I can't get her even remotely excited about trying it. The last time we seriously disscussed bringing a friend of mine ...


2 Comments, 1265 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
Drofpussology4u 66 M
43  Articles
The Magic of Latex Gloves: I WISH I HAD KNOWN BEFORE!   11/11/2005

I read an advice article on here about latex gloves and tantra massage. I began to learn more about tantra and did it my own way....without the gloves. What a mistake! Recently, I came met a woman on here who indicated she had already found her playmate and did not want to meet other men. When she read about my tantra skills, she contacted me. We ...


4 Comments, 7543 Views, 198 Votes ,4.57 Score
jayjay7112002 47 M
3  Articles
Are alot of these profiles...Fake?   11/10/2005

It seems to me there are a ton of fake profiles on here


2 Comments, 297 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
DaLucky13 53 M
16  Articles
Straight Ass advice by DaLucky1   11/9/2005

Okay, let's see who's in the box this week... <br> J.H. from Philly writes...(mumbles)..nude photo included...oh..OH!!! How in the hell did she do that with the snake and the bottle??? <br> ( T, save that email, and put her on speed dial...damn if I don't hit that..) <br> Okay, next letter comes from Virginia...C.S. writes, "You damn fool..."(chuckling, thank ...


2 Comments, 187 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Reaching Her: A Lesson in Male/Female Relations   11/8/2005

Men and women are alike and different sexually. We are alike in that we both has sexual needs and fantasies. Each want to experience a sexual high better than before, whether with someone or in self-pleasing fantasy conjured by the mind. Yes, I say the mind. Afterall, sex is not as physcial has we believe but more mental. This leads me to my second point of being different. <br> ...


1 Comments, 125 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_camaleon1973 48 M
5  Articles
What's the deal?   11/8/2005

Why do I keep getting emails from Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat about new matches yet when I log in they are never online or at least not in chat?


1 Comments, 139 Views, 1 Votes
Anal Taboo   11/7/2005

My partner is very close to me, but i havent ever talked about anal sex with her. I have the feeling from passing comments that the social stigma that it is bad and disgusting is engrained. However she is the sought of woman that is sexually experimental in other ways so i think if it werent for her misconceptions she would be willing to try it hopefully enjoy it (I wouldnt want to do it ...


1 Comments, 120 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
DaLucky13 53 M
16  Articles
Why people "LIE"...   11/5/2005

HMMM... WHY DO PEOPLE LIE??? tHAT'S A QUESTION THAT FOR AGES WAS ALWAYS SWEPT UNDER THE RUG.. NOW, DON'T GET ME WRONG, THERE ARE A SELECT FEW(RARE QUANTITY)WHO ACTUALLYTELL THE TRUTH... HOWEVER, FOR THE OTHER 99.7%OF THE POPULATION, WE LIE ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. <br> THINK ABOUT IT...WE LIE ON OUR TAXES, WE LIE TO OUR SPOUSES, WE LIE TO OUR BOSSES, WE LIE TO OUR PARTNER OR ...


1 Comments, 81 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Shaving   11/5/2005

I use a razor to shave my cock and balls. I was wondering if anyone knows of something that I could us so I don't have to shave all the time. Thanks


3 Comments, 341 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
master_j_d_69 56 M
1  Article
dose size matter   11/2/2005

can any lady tell me if size matter realy matter if the guy know how to use his tool the right way


3 Comments, 289 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Am I tooo old fashioned???   11/2/2005

There's a cutle little lady at a local convenience store very near to my residence. In sooooooo many ways, she's exactly what I've been looking for. She's attractive and flirts with me ALL OF THE TIME!! She's very cute, funny and a joy to be around. BUT, SHE'S MARRIED. I like her a lot and sometimes picture myself with her because I believe that she wants to be with me(for what ever ...


6 Comments, 162 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
Hot Older Women..................................   11/2/2005

Lately, I'm more attracted to older women. There is something very erotic about women in their forties and fifties, but do they have much of a sex drive? <br> ~P~


10 Comments, 337 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Why don't Kiwi women dress more sexy?   10/31/2005

I know we are a socioty of jeans and tee shirts, but why won't women dress up in nice skirts, high heals and sexy pantyhose any more. I get verry turned on when a woman makes the effort to be sexy and seductive, any ideas?


2 Comments, 69 Views, 0 Votes
CANDYLICKER464 66 F
1  Article
HELP PLEASE   10/30/2005

Ok here goes I have been a member of Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat for about 2 years now, when I first started out I was a standard member looking for a male, and I found that male but we have a long distance relationship from time to time he come to where I’m at, then I became a silver member looking for a female to put some spice in my life and to fulfill my fantasy of being with a woman I ...


1 Comments, 102 Views, 0 Votes
Drofpussology4u 66 M
43  Articles
Men: How to get laid on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat if you are having trouble   10/30/2005

I have seen a lot of articles and blogs from men on here complaining about getting laid. I recommend the following? <br> 1. Write blogs and articles. Demonstrate intelligence and passion. <br> 2. Show respect for the women you contact on here. Most do not like one liners and give me some pussy lines. <br> 3. If you are not having luck with women, try ...


6 Comments, 315 Views, 14 Votes ,5.70 Score
bone_shaker69 41 M
10  Articles
first time swingers   10/29/2005

Okay things you really need to think about and talk about with your partner BEFORe you go too far. first off.. IT'S JUST SEX!!!! no feeling there not going to loose your partner. It is hard the first time to see your partner with another person. but just remember it is just sex. Another thing talk about rules. like for us we have the no cumming in her mouth unless she says so rule. ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
vafunseeker01 50 M
1  Article
Finding first bi experience   10/27/2005

I'm a married male who wants to find another male (prefferably married) who wants the same. I find lots of guys here with the same interest but after contact none seem serious. Does anyone really exist who wants to try this?


2 Comments, 235 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
My_Wilder_Side 49 F
1  Article
Nice Guys Should Read   10/26/2005

Hi, <br> I have been observing guys in the last 10 years. <br> I have a strong feeling that nice guys dont seem to understand why they get used and then damped quickly claiming later that they should have got a better treatment and why women dont find nice guys attractive. <br> I can come up with these guidelines: <br> 1., Dont beleive in fairy tales. ...


6 Comments, 882 Views, 33 Votes ,5.90 Score
What Do Women Prefer Standard Condem Or Spirled   10/25/2005

I'm am wondering which condem women prefer best. Is it the standard condem or the ribbed ones or even the spirl (twisted tip).


0 Comments, 222 Views, 0 Votes
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
how to use a condom   10/23/2005

Here's How: 1. Take a condom out of the wrapper carefully; do not rip it, do not use your teeth, do not use a knife or scissors. <br> 2. Take out the condom and put it on as soon as there is an erection. <br> 3. Always handle the condom with care, if it tears it is useless. <br> 4. Cup the condom between your fingers to put some lubricant or spericide ...


1 Comments, 487 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_nucpl2dagame 46 C
1  Article
What do you think?   10/19/2005

My wife and I have been looking to meet and potentially hook up with couples but have not had too much luck. She wants to have her fantasy but not until we have been with another couple. How many of you out there have had trouble meeting your first couple and what should we expect? We are both ready to and willing to take the next step in this lifestyle. Is there something that we are ...


2 Comments, 184 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Weare241 64 C
29  Articles
Should SHE be pissed?   10/19/2005

I recently posted an article entitled, "Should I be Pissed, " that expressed dismay over the fact that, if she were single, my wife would have, "given it all, " pussy, ass, swallowing, whatever he wanted, for a, "one night stand, " with a particularly attractive dude that she recently met at a conference. That really bugged me because, although she loves to get fucked and do the things ...


3 Comments, 665 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
Want2LicknRideU 49 F
4  Articles
Can someone figure this out   10/18/2005

I have been asked by a dear friend of mine.To see if someone can help him with this.This friend of mine is married but has been separated from his wife for 7 years and has nothing to do with her.But his wife will not sign the divorce papers.But him and his girlfriend is very happy together.He wants to know if anyone can figure this out.This is a dream of his in his words: <br> ...


2 Comments, 465 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
rm_TheOnly0ne 46 M
4  Articles
Help with fantasy   10/18/2005

I've developed this fantasy over the past year or so. I really want to get together with a couple and have the woman teach me how to give a blowjob. then, after she shows me how to take a load in her mouth, i will kiss her deeply and get my first taste of cum. <br> anybody in the virginia area that is willing to help with my fantasy?


1 Comments, 298 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Weare241 64 C
29  Articles
Should I be Pissed   10/16/2005

My wife recently returned from a conference. When I asked how it was, she mentioned meeting a particularly handsome speaker, who was extremely popular with the ladies. Of course, she steadfastly denied being interested in him until I loosened her tounge with a few glasses of wine. <br> She finally admitted that if she were single, she not only would have fucked him, but would also ...


5 Comments, 1079 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
What do women really want?   10/15/2005

A simple question really, im just after a little advice on what women are looking for in a man.


1 Comments, 198 Views, 1 Votes
iwantu79912 54 M
2  Articles
How does facial hair affect eating pussy?   10/13/2005

I have a question for all you girls out there that like to have their pussies licked. How does a mans facial hair, or lack of, affect how it feels having your pussy eaten? I have heard that a man with a beard feels better than one who has a stubble, but I was reading in a blog that one woman says that stubble feels good. So let's hear what the rest of you have to say. Is it better ...


3 Comments, 436 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
problemchild280 52 M
1  Article
small breast   10/13/2005

why is it that most weman with small breast will show there pussy but wont show there breast


8 Comments, 335 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
why it wont work   10/11/2005

hi everyone, i figured out why women dont meet up on here. it is because sex to a woman is a personal connection. i seen it in a womens eyes the other night. the way she was looking into mine, it was like she was giving me her soul.


4 Comments, 149 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
why does my wife hold back   10/11/2005

we got into playing after we got to looking around the internet at pics/videos on sites of people having 3somes. we agreeded it might be fun. so we looked til we met this one guy and my wife chatted with him over a oeriod of time and they got to be good friends as we as him and i. so we had him over and it went good seeing as how we were all nervous. lol. so we continued to play with this ...


1 Comments, 367 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Fuuuuuuuuuck!   10/11/2005

Hi all! Something has happened here at Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat that I seriously didn't expect to happen. I fell for someone. <br> I've gone out with 7 guys here at Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat in the past 4 months and never thought about starting a relationship with any of them before this last guy. <br> Facts are that we've been "dating" for 6 weeks. Out of the past 6 weekends, we've spent 4 of them ...


4 Comments, 476 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Would you alter your body for your partner?   10/5/2005

My Fiance' recently told me that she would be more interested in oral sex if I got circumsized. I shower 1-2 times a day, and always wash before any intimacy, so smell or taste isn't a problem for her. She apparently just prefers oral sex without the extra foreskin involved. She says she is turned off to the idea because she is an RN and sees uncircumcized males in their worst condition ...


5 Comments, 269 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
rm_daywalker322 50 M
6  Articles
pls be honest   10/4/2005

my friend had been in this online relationship for about 5 months with this girl in my town finally they agreed to meeet 1 on 1 and my friend flew in from lagos to spend the wk/end and meet her . i had to show him the way to university of port harcourt where the girl was studying. we were supposed to meet her outside the mr biggs joint at uniport and as we were sitting in ...


2 Comments, 140 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
happycouple973 49 C
95  Articles
understand the the female body.   10/1/2005

Experience can probably help all men out there in pleasing their woman, but first you must understand the terminology of the female body. <br> Vagina - Generally referred to as either the cunt or "the hole, " the portion of the female genitalia that protrudes inside of the body. <br> Labia - Generally referred to as the lips, the protective cover to the vaginal opening. ...


2 Comments, 296 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
Princess7384 37 F
1  Article
a friend of mine's having a problem...   10/1/2005

A friend of mine doesn't feel like her boyfriend is attracted to her anymore, and keeps hearing from others that the attraction dies the longer you are together. What can I say to her to help her realize that she is GORGEOUS, and to not let these other people get to her anymore?


2 Comments, 83 Views, 0 Votes
increasing the amount of cum   10/1/2005

Does anyone know how to increase the amount of cum we shoot? I would love to increase the qauntity and there must be a way but i haevnt seen it written anywhere. Any one here have experience with that? I would appreciate your input.


1 Comments, 384 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Early Ejaculation   9/28/2005

If I go a long time without sex, I tend to ejaculate very soon and with little stimulation. I recover very quickly and have much more staying power after the first "blast". Does anyone know why and are there any ways to desensitize myself?


4 Comments, 188 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
MrMilkman757 41 M
3  Articles
Ladies be real   9/26/2005

A lot of women come on here looking for love I don't think this is a good platform for it. Let me know what you think?


9 Comments, 204 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
bluehorsey 56 M
1  Article
FACT: It’s illegal to be hung wearing tight clothes in Florida.   9/24/2005

No, it’s not a joke. If you’re large and you decide to wear biking shorts, a Speedo or even tight fitting sweats that show too much of your clothed dick, you can go to jail for public nudity. The Floridians call it “Clothed Human Male Genitals in a Discernibly Turgid State.” Turgid simply means swollen or large. Look it up in the LexisNexis Municipal Codes for ...


2 Comments, 313 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
rm_Falcon37865 65 M
2  Articles
A 20 year marraige saved without infidelity!   9/23/2005

I originally came to this site looking for some resources to understand this midlife phenomenon it seems I just have to go through (not that I wanted to!). It also served as a diversion when I felt like if I didn't fuck something I'd explode. I fought like hell to stay faithful to my wife. If you're looking for a success story to help you out in a similiar situation, well this artlicle is ...


1 Comments, 227 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
Older women and younger men   9/16/2005

A big hullo to everyone out there right now! <br> As a young man of 19 years old, I was wondering what the older women of this little "community" of ours (Or older women in general, really) think about the possibility of being with a younger man? <br> For me, and a lot of the men that I know, the idea of being with an older woman is incredibly appealing, by far ...


5 Comments, 327 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
9  Articles
Guys - Tips to spotting bogus profiles   9/15/2005

We've gotta help each other out. We end up wasting more time dealing with bogus profiles than we do finding good matches. <br> Watch out for profiles with a "hot" pic, but no characteristic information filled out. <br> Another bogus one is where they direct you to a website outside of Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat. These also can make you succeptible to viruses. <br> Don't forget that lame ...


3 Comments, 252 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
rm_hotcpl2fck 47 C
9  Articles
She want to be Surprised MFM How To?   9/15/2005

My wife and I are looking to have a Bi MFM. The thought of this gets us both very hot and we love talking about it as we fuck. Telling her how I want to see her take a large cock inside, and she returns with how she want to see me suck a large cock as she fucks my ass. Only thing... She is very shy. How do I get her to fuck another man? She doesn't want to meet him till she very horny and ...


2 Comments, 767 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
MY Friend's Wife EX-boyfriend, is with her sister.   9/15/2005

Recently my friend's wife had cheated on him, and a few days ago he told me he found out this guy who she cheated with is dating his younger sister in law. <br> My friend is quite nervous and he doen't know if he should tell his wife. <br> The younger syster lives with my friend's sister inlaw. <br> He tells me that his wife makes frequent visits to his sister in ...


1 Comments, 401 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
should I   9/15/2005

MY WIFE WOULD LIKE TO FUCK A BLACK MAN AND SHE WOULD LIKE FOR ME TO WATCH HER AND SHE WOULD LIKE FOR ME TO SUCK HIS COCK AND IF WE DO IT WERE WOULD FIEND A BLACK MAN WE LIVE WERE THERE ARE NOT ANY BLACK MAN


1 Comments, 243 Views, 4 Votes
gene914 55 C
3  Articles
My Wife's New Fantasy!   9/14/2005

My beautiful wife and I have really enjoyed ourselves over the last several years in the lifestyle. We've full swapped with couples one on one, been to many group and hotel parties, clubs, and I've arranged several gang-bangs for her as well. For the most part all very erotic and sensual. I love seeing her sexually excited by others and she likes seeing me have fun with other women as ...


2 Comments, 747 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
Addicted?   9/13/2005

I have a friend on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat who swears he is addicted, spends hours and hours every week looking, writing...He does get laid sometimes...Do you think a person can get addicted to a sex site? hmmm...


6 Comments, 624 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
People should present themselves as they really are.   9/13/2005

If you are on here to actually meet people, why would you put a picture that is 5 years old? say your 55, when in fact you are 60 with a great face lift? say your divorced when you have been married for 15 years? say who and what you are! There are plenty of people who will meet you anyway, Takes all kinds to make this ole world go round...that's what keeps it interesting!


2 Comments, 193 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
8inforyourass 44 M
6  Articles
Cars   9/13/2005

Guys, keep your car clean, it tells a woman a lot about yourself. It doesn't have to be some nice sports car or luxury car. Just take care of it, it shows that you take care of yourself.


0 Comments, 40 Views, 0 Votes
happycouple973 49 C
95  Articles
Male mutiples!!!!   9/12/2005

One day I was lucky enough to discover that although a guy cannot actually have multiple orgasms the way women do, you can draw out their pleasure so that it feels like their orgasm is continuing long after they've finished actually cumming. My guy considers this to be his own kind of multiple orgasm and one hell of a great treat when I do it. Now, the reason I don't do it all the time ...


1 Comments, 422 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
EuropeMan1984 39 M
3  Articles
Just a little question for ladies.   9/11/2005

Hey ladies, I would like to know how many e-mails on daily basis do you receive from the members of opposite sex? And according to what do you pick the people to hang around with?


5 Comments, 219 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Searching   9/10/2005

Why is it that when I try to search for a woman looking for a man, I get a lot of woman looking for women only profiles? Should these not show up in my search? Do I need to become a silver or gold member to stop this from happening?


2 Comments, 142 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
EuropeMan1984 39 M
3  Articles
Body hair   9/9/2005

Do women prefer men that have hair on their chest? And also whether they prefer men with or without facial hair like beard/moustache/goatie? <br> I've heard that women like men to be shaven.


4 Comments, 591 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
8inforyourass 44 M
6  Articles
General Advice   9/9/2005

This is to inform all users of this site that if you get on here and expect to get hooked up it is not that easy. It is just like dating and can become quite complicated. The trick to this site is to just be honest or it will bite you in the butt.


1 Comments, 275 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
co worker driving me crazy   9/8/2005

one of the girls i work with revealed to me that she was having sex dreams about me, and one day she told me that she would like the dreams to come true. we started to meet outside of work, and we kiss on each other whenever we get a chance. only thing wrong is that she tells me she wants to do it, her mind tells her to go for it, but in her heart she cant. she has been with her man for ...


3 Comments, 311 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
EuropeMan1984 39 M
3  Articles
for women   9/7/2005

Do women like the men that are circumcised or rather uncut?


1 Comments, 148 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Casual Sex or LTR: Biology and Society   9/7/2005

Using a service like this one, the first things that comes to my mind is “slutty.” Yet the more I think about it, how is finding multiple men for casual sex any worse than one bad long-term relationship? <br> There is a biological function for love; love-relationships ideally satisfy one’s sex drive as well as one’s heart. Socially, ...


1 Comments, 242 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
BEANIEBABY1270 57 C
2  Articles
Couple Profiles   9/4/2005

I would like to add my opinion here by saying, that this is a site where couples can hook up and meet other couples as well as singles. So with that being said; how can you give other couples or singles an idea of who they are meeting (refering more to couples) without posting both people in the couple on the profile. I feel if you dont put your pics (face) on the profile then you have ...


2 Comments, 193 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Want2LicknRideU 49 F
4  Articles
Can someone tell me what I am doing wrong   9/3/2005

I was wondering if any other females have this problem or is it just me.I love to have wild and rough sex sometimes.But when I do sometimes when the man has my legs on his shoulders and he is going in , it doesn't hurt but when he starts pumping the bottom of my stomach starts hurting really bad.Does any other females have this problem.It only hurts that way.all the other ways it doesn't ...


6 Comments, 1287 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
ilickallnight 34 M
3  Articles
Always be yourself   9/3/2005

Always be yourself, I know we may try to change for someone but why be unhappy, if that person cannot love us for whom we are they are not worth it, been yourself will find you your true love one day!


1 Comments, 90 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
rm_cinch48 54 M
2  Articles
Married and playing alone   9/2/2005

I have had an acount on here for awhile and have had a few ecounters. But for the most part traffic has been slow. I mainly like to play with couples but it seems that the "MARRIED" tag may be getting in the way. It seems that the male partner in the couple would be more at ease with a married male as opposed to a single male. Please Help. <br> Thanks, Cinch48


2 Comments, 221 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
What is considered well hung?   8/31/2005

Simple but might be a "silly" question to ask, but all over the place I read ladies asking for a "well hung man" or someone with a large dick. What constitutes well hung / large dick? Looking for measurements, and would love to not just hear from the guys, but also what the ladies out there think. <br> Thanks and a hui ho!


1 Comments, 660 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_Podno2 39 M
2  Articles
Helping the Shy....   8/30/2005

My girlfriend is very shy, and not so willing to try too many new things. I don't want to be pushy, because I really care for her. But sex is just getting boring if its always the same, no foreplay no fun sex.... <br> I've bought her a vibrator, lubes, and encouraged her to be advenutrous and playfull. I respect her very my, and don't want to hurt her. <br> Does anyone ...


3 Comments, 246 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
new to Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat   8/29/2005

me and my wife are new to Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat. the fact of the matter is that for a few years now i have wanted her to do this. and now that it is happening. iam scared. she has had all the fun. she has met a man and had sex. that does not bother me. what does is she is chatting with this man. which by the way his wife doesnt know about. this is bothering me. what should i do? i dont want to stop her from ...


5 Comments, 332 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
Ontop212 31 M
3  Articles
play hard to get   8/29/2005

The more challenge a guy is for a women the higher the chances the guy will succeed. That simple


2 Comments, 382 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
rm_sw_mt_couple 42 C
1  Article
What's the deal   8/29/2005

Ok, I know our profile isn't the best, and we are not Ken & Barbie types. We don't provide face shots YET (key word) but we both work with the public, so that should be understandable. Is there something we said wrong in our profile, or are we just totally unattractive. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks Christina & Dan


4 Comments, 414 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
rm_mihalclark 45 M
1  Article
Having feels for someone   8/27/2005

I have feelings for someone that dose not feel the same way I do or atleast will not say she dose. I would like to know if there is a chance that she might change her mind. We talk alot and have alot in common to and when we talk I feel something good.


1 Comments, 71 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
downofasystem69 28 M
1  Article
bbw   8/27/2005

WHAT IS IT ABOUT A BBW THAT MAKES ME HOT?


2 Comments, 204 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
How to keep from hurting her during sex   8/25/2005

I am of average size and no matter what if fuck her hard or go to deep it hurts her.Im only 6.5inches and average in girth .It does not matter what position it still hurts can any ladies help


2 Comments, 552 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_pixieelf24 42 F
2  Articles
Wondering if your good or not?   8/25/2005

No, i'm not an expert or anything, but here's some common sense. Don't know if your good or not, just ask. If u really wanna know if ur making her/him feel good, ask them how they like it. And not while ur goin at it. When ur both just chillin, talk about it. Ask them where they really love to get kissed, bitten, etc. What their fave position is and why. If they don't like oral, don't give ...


3 Comments, 187 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
Succulente64 59 M
1  Article
No Pubes!   8/24/2005

I really enjoy having hair free tackle and the additional sensations gained from being so. Shaving daily is not practical nor does it agree with my skin and I can't stand going through the itchy week!! What are my options and does someone know some magical technique. I don't really have the balls to go and get professionally waxed or lasered. So......??


2 Comments, 476 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
jpi2004 55 M
1  Article
Friendly Fucks, or Fucking Friends   8/23/2005

I am just looking for some advise, me and my wife have been married 8 yrs, and have 3 . Our sex life is good she started meeting other men on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat, and started meeting them, and called them fuck buddies, I did not mind, in fact i loved it, she always came home and i got one hell of a fucking from her. Bit reciently she met a guy, says she wants to be friends with him, and want's me to be ...


3 Comments, 479 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
cplseeksfml4fun 45 C
9  Articles
Does this mean he is still in love with her?   8/23/2005

This is really a question for a friend that is on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat. She is scared that her husband is in love with his ex-wife still. He has two beautiful little with his ex-wife and yet she calls him all the time and it has nothing to do with the at all. She will call him asking little things like can he call so and so for her and tell them to get in touch with her? The thing is...he says he hates ...


5 Comments, 195 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
justhorny1029 58 F
1  Article
the art of , well getting laid   8/21/2005

Yes, getting laid is a art you have to have a true appreciation for the joy of a oragsam.The feel of a cock in yor mouth and the excitement of trying new things.Even things that you never though you would do.I think you should be able to have great sex with someone that you maybe don't want a relationship with, but enjoy's the same joy of sex that you do.That seems to be the hard part there ...


2 Comments, 191 Views, 11 Votes ,6.16 Score
rm_starsin73 50 F
1  Article
Is it really that weird?   8/20/2005

I am a very oral gal. It is something I enjoy doing very much, but I do not prefer to receive. I have found in my experiences that many men get upset by this. <br> I do have a reason for not preferring it, and that is because I am a squirter and from my personal experiences it has freaked men out bad enough from just normal sex, so I can only imagine a reaction I would receive ...


8 Comments, 393 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_steer22 37 M
2  Articles
straight to gay?   8/19/2005

Okay, so I have a friend coming over for the weekend. He's straight and I'm bi. I really find this guy attractive and I want to sleep with him. Any way I could get him to go with me even if just once?


3 Comments, 499 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
all_alone3 38 M
29  Articles
SHOULD I   8/17/2005

IM thinking about becoming a porn star but i dont know how my family would handle it


2 Comments, 246 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
How long is to short after the death of your spouse   8/16/2005

How long should a person wait to start dating once again after his or her spouse or significant other has passed away?


4 Comments, 333 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
suzieQ 59 F
1  Article
RE: use of Deoderent   8/16/2005

I tried to post this in the comment section and could not get it to post <br> I am not a medical professional and do not state any claims but I do read alot from professionals in the Natural Health field and stating that skin is the largest organ in the body to accept toxins and is probablly one of the largest reasons for cancer as we are exposed every day to toxins even in our ...


1 Comments, 272 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
curiousmiguy21 40 M
1  Article
Do nice guys always finish last?   8/15/2005

I'm basically one of the nicest guys anyone could possibly meet I'm good looking(I have the pics to prove it), intelligent, respectful, and a total gentleman but apparently thats not what woman are looking for. It's become painfully obvious that unless you sell or do drugs, been to jail a couple times, or treat people like shit your not going to get anywhere with a woman. In high school I ...


12 Comments, 255 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
Extra Marital Dating - What Gets You Caught   8/15/2005

Just met someone. In a small community it is difficult to get away with anything for long. What are the most common mistakes that get you caught?


9 Comments, 509 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
wifey3223 55 F
20  Articles
i had a women call me annoying in the Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat magazine?   8/15/2005

well, i guess ive grown alot since first joining Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat. to each his own, 1, 2, 3 people mostly women dosnt bother me.i like to talk, to be open minded in everything , i do. i get alot of sound advice, real, etc from the magazine. i mostly like to get alot of the mens, ideals. i have alot of cool people in my network, i cant be so crazy.when will we learn to treat, speak to others, as wed ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
herc120368 55 M
9  Articles
Honesty   8/13/2005

Why do people make things difficult by lying or playing games when they can save themselves some time by being honest. If you are interested in somebody or not interested, just be honest. <br> I understand that this site for entertainment or amusement purposes for some people, but if that is why you are here, then be frank and honest. It seems silly to me to waste your time ...


1 Comments, 245 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
am I gay   8/12/2005

I need some advice? <br> I have been married for many years and have had many girlfriends. Particuarly asian girls as they are my favorite. Muslim girls are the best in bed as they mostly have been trained to serve men. These are girls whom have grown up in asia of course. <br> I have had many girls give me a blow job including facials as well as swallowing my love ...


4 Comments, 441 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
Women- Fuck you Husbands Husbands-Love your Wives   8/12/2005

It is a fact that men cheat for sex and women cheat for love. Not saying this is fool proof but a horny man is going to look. A lonely woman is going to look.


3 Comments, 260 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
rm_omegadec 39 M
3  Articles
what are you thinking?   8/10/2005

a few says a go i was searching through this site and noticed a lot of attached (partner not included)profiles did you ever stop to think thats not a good thing if your attached and not happy enough to be faithful your not in a good relationship so get out of it and if you do just need a change of senery it should work both ways or at least give your partner the respect of letting them know ...


2 Comments, 219 Views, 7 Votes ,0.49 Score
Experiencing Bi Sex Safely   8/9/2005

I am a married, bi-curious male. I have absolutely zero interest in a relationship with a guy, but I am fascinated with penises. I want to have a safe experience with another guy, just to see what it is like. I don't want any strings attached, and I am very secure in my marriage. I am scared to death about diseases. How do I go about finding a safe person without all of the ...


4 Comments, 597 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
wetandsassy69 45 F
2  Articles
Out of Sight...Time to Play   8/9/2005

I am very torn right now. I have decisions to make concerning the person I have grown to love and date for almost 2 years now. She got herself caught up in some mess and is now incarcerated. I plan to stand by her financially and emotionally, but can I be faithful? It's hard because I love being touched. I love the feeling of an orgasm, especially when it's received under someone's ...


5 Comments, 409 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
experience   8/9/2005

what is the best way of gaining experience plz


0 Comments, 262 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
rm_longshaft69 61 M
8  Articles
why do some women that respond to you want to send you to another site   8/7/2005

some of the women that have responded to me always want me to join another site why would i want to do this i have join this one and i am not going to join a whole buch of sites i take it they are not for real


3 Comments, 181 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
CantonOhCouple 64 C
3  Articles
Can you beat this?   8/7/2005

I am on the edge of my seat waiting to hear from anyone who can beat my “no sex” record. <br> <br> What is the longest you have gone without having sex with your partner? <br> Can you beat my record of 11 years of marriage of which 11 years were without sex? You may ask, “What the hell was she thinking to stay in a sexless ...


3 Comments, 548 Views, 20 Votes ,6.70 Score
rm_hardnjuicy61 63 M
1  Article
How secure and private is this site?   8/6/2005

I thought this site was a private site, however this doesnt seem to be the case. Out of curiosity I googled my handle and was very surprised when the results listed all the sites I am registered on. Clicking a link brought up photos used on the site. <br> Gotta say I was pretty shocked, Id be curious to know if any of you guys/gals had thought of this issue and if you have similar ...


3 Comments, 344 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
rm_dicudown7 44 M
1  Article
Shaved or natural   8/5/2005

Shaved or natural is the key here. To me I've had so many that were shaved. That's if a woman isn't shaved or trimmed real low it's really kinda like a turn off for me. So what do you guys think and women I would like to know what you think also.


2 Comments, 649 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
My wife still treats sex like a dirty act.....   8/4/2005

My wife still treats sex like it is a dirty act, instead of a wonderful experience between 2 people in love/lust. What can I do to make her see the passionthat can be? Help, I have tried everything I can think of.


3 Comments, 232 Views, 0 Votes
slainteva 35 M
1  Article
Secret of a Good Pickup Line   8/4/2005

So I've been hanging out in chat a bit, surfing the different chat rooms, and if there's one thing I've noticed, it's the abundant supply of horrible pick up lines. I've been observing for weeks and have collected many different lines along with their effects. This, then, is the definitive guide to Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat Pickup Lines. <br> Words to avoid: fuck, suck, titties, cunt, cock, lick, ...


1 Comments, 209 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
rm_morefun232 70 C
4  Articles
It all in what you say   8/4/2005

I would like to give some advice to men in general. When you take to a woman please be respectfull. I am so tired of having our men partners say things like, Well lets get to it. Lets get it done, I will get the job done, { like my husband can't?} I will make you happier than you have ever been.{ like I've never came before. Just stop to think before you speak. You are a guest in our lives ...


0 Comments, 113 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
rm_scorpionz4 48 C
13  Articles
Oral   8/4/2005

Do men generaly prefer to give oral rather than recive?


2 Comments, 335 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
happycouple973 49 C
95  Articles
The threesome effect - What you should know first   8/4/2005

So you have decided to add a third or a couple into your sexual life. Wonderful and congratulations for coming to that conclusion. Now that the easy part is over let us get to the hard pieces. What, oh you thought that the decision was the easy part. Sadly it is not. There is a lot more to a poly relationship then many that initially agree to it even realize. <br> Many times from ...


2 Comments, 443 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
happycouple973 49 C
95  Articles
You Should Try A Cock Ring   8/4/2005

What if I told you I had an item that could make your erection harder, make your sexual sessions last longer, make sex feel better for both you and your partner (male or female) and would only cost you about $10 to $25 one time? Would you believe me? You should because it’s true. Let me tell you about the joys of a simple device, the Cock Ring. <br> My adventures with this ...


5 Comments, 545 Views, 9 Votes ,5.78 Score
rm_scorpionz4 48 C
13  Articles
Brazian   8/4/2005

I have been thinking of getting a brazian wax as waxing larsts longer but is it worth the pain?


2 Comments, 103 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
maria69me 48 C
10  Articles
Looking 4 - 1 Good (o)(o) GIRL-HELP   8/3/2005

I am only interested in meeting up with one good female that is the same as me. You would think it to be fairly simplistic, NO way. I think I am fairly attractive, slim with a pretty face and some sexy pictures. I surf this site I wink, email, chat and answer any email from a women. I dont answer couples or men not because I dont like them but because I am looking for a girl. I guess more ...


4 Comments, 299 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_scorpionz4 48 C
13  Articles
What Sex Toy?   8/3/2005

What sex toy is the best for you? Is the Rabbit as good as people say? And whats the round buzzy clit tool I see quite often in porn?


2 Comments, 221 Views, 0 Votes
rm_scorpionz4 48 C
13  Articles
What is the average?   8/3/2005

What is the average lenght of a man cock? Does anyone know....


4 Comments, 458 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
rm_scorpionz4 48 C
13  Articles
Photo snips   8/2/2005

We have recently joined & have seen many differant pics, most bad, Some sexy and loads crude. How do you decide what picture to put in? I mean if you have a real great pussy shot on it's own when your a couple do you post that or wouldn't you like to know what the person looks like? Fitting two people into such a small shot is going to be unviewable. So what would you rather see fanny, ...


1 Comments, 112 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Just A simple Question   8/2/2005

I have a question. What does it take to get people to check out your profile and to contact you. I may get a few but mostley for men. I am more interested in why ladies dont check me out. Can some one help?


1 Comments, 239 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_dome6984 40 F
3  Articles
SEXUALLY ACTIVE   8/2/2005

Hi everyone. Ok I LOOOOOOVEEEEE to have sex, and a variety of sex, but its all protected. Is it a bad thing, am i considered a hoe, should i be ashamed, should i slow down, do i have a problem, i mean wahts goin on? Is it that I just love sex so much or waht? Will it be a problem for me when I do finally settle down? Guys/Girls, please help me out, I'm really startin to get worried about ...


1 Comments, 137 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
kmhathaw94 48 M
1  Article
i need to get laid   7/31/2005

Can someone tell me why I don't get replys


3 Comments, 278 Views, 5 Votes
Thicknslickguy 55 C
10  Articles
shaving private places   7/30/2005

Shaving your privates is a must do. This day and age everyone thats having sex should be well trimmed and shaved neatly. Its more pleasureable to lick or suck bald skin than getting a unwanted hair or hairs in your mouth. So if your thinking about shaving and haven't please do yourself and your other a big favor.


2 Comments, 328 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_longshaft69 61 M
8  Articles
what do most women want when responding to a profile   7/30/2005

what are most women want to hear when you respond to there profile i have been here for awhile and have had very few returned e mails what should write to get more replayes


1 Comments, 197 Views, 0 Votes
blackdirkdiggler 41 M
1  Article
Got the hots for my Humanities Instructor   7/29/2005

Got a serious issue!! My instructor for a college course is one of the sexiest, cutest, most intelligent women I have ever met. I have stayed after class a couple of times to get some insight into some of the things we discuss in class and found out that we have a few common acquaintances and also attended the same college during our first yrs of school. After the first test I realized she ...


2 Comments, 62 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_life_line666 37 M
3  Articles
A simple kiss   7/28/2005

I was talking to a female firend the other day, yes a friend and not a "friend". We were bitching about guys, yes i am one -.-, as usual and she asked me to describe the perfect kiss. I came up with this in that second. <br> stand there looking deep into some1s eyes, just standing there, your lips move slowly closer and closer to gether, my hand slowly slides to the side of her ...


1 Comments, 73 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_2forfuntime2 59 C
2  Articles
swinger clubs   7/27/2005

hi we are new to this. and we are wondering if there are any swinger bars in wisconsin or minnesota. we would like to check them out and see if we would like them. or do you have to join a private club.


1 Comments, 213 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
What do you really want?????   7/26/2005

What is your purpose here? What are you really doing on this site?? Do you even know?? Well it seems that most of the women here don't know what they want or what they are doing here. It seems that most are just wanting to play that magic game called "mind games".. THere are a lot of people here playing the shell game. One that goes like this: "go to this site if you would like to see more ...


1 Comments, 107 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
Question to the ladies. Would you have sex with a married man.   7/25/2005

This is a question for the women. <br> Would you establish a relationship with a married man? <br> Would you have sex with a married Man.


5 Comments, 430 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
be honest   7/24/2005

Life does seem unfair at times. Here we are on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat and we're pouring our hearts out; or are we? We try to be honest, sincere and caring along with of course horny. We sit back and wait and nothing happens. What the hell is going on here? We were honest. I'm wonderful. Where are all the hits.My advice is this, be the best you can be. Be totally honest because if you get into a circumstance ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
joeodd2 43 M
11  Articles
Does Penis Enhancement really work?   7/24/2005

Now before anyone asks, no I do not have a small penis. However <br> <br> I would like to increase my size by about an inch and my diameter about an inch and a half. I was curious to see if any other men have had experiences with penis enhancement and if you would be willing to share them.


5 Comments, 250 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
SingleWhiteMan5 40 M
6  Articles
I dont think my profile is very effective, help me!   7/23/2005

Im not getting very many hits on my profile and Ive had a few woman tell me that it just doesnt stand out like it should. Without me blatantly lying on my profile how can I make it stand out more? I do have a dim lighted face pic in it, and its only dim lighted for security purposes, I do have more that I am more than happy to send to people. Any advice for a young, and apparently naive ...


3 Comments, 126 Views, 0 Votes
AFreakyBrotha 54 M
8  Articles
Men be willing to accept when your wrong!!   7/21/2005

Gentlemen, <br> We as men are often prideful, big headed, and just plain offensive when it comes to women!! <br> We say anything to hurt their feelings, lower self esteem, and switch it around so they feel like it their fault, but it's not it's really ours. <br> Well I am one to admit when I am wrong as I have for a previous question I brought in an article. I ...


3 Comments, 121 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
sex with a co-worker good or bad idea   7/19/2005

I work in a store where we have a ups pickup everyday. The driver that picks up is very hot and i would love to have sex with him. He is married, I am engaged. My fiance is aware of what I would like to do with the driver and doesnt have a problem with it. The driver is also aware of how wet he makes me. What do I do?


3 Comments, 208 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
sex buddy   7/19/2005

I'd be curious to hear if any married guys have managed to get a sex buddy out there. Just someone to occasionally have sex with, with the wife being kept out of the loop. And how it came about.


2 Comments, 289 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
PUSSY HAIR!   7/19/2005

Women men don't like going down on a face full of hair....trim it up even if its just your lips.....you'll benifit from it beyond words!


3 Comments, 166 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
smalldick61 62 C
2  Articles
Does size really matter ?   7/19/2005

I have seen many articles and books that says sizes don't matter but I'm not all satisfy, I want to hear right from those of you ladies who have tried many diferent sizes from 3 to eight inches, have you notice any diferences in pleasure ? My wife does not want to try in fear that she might not like me any more. Please tell me the whole truth, thanks.


6 Comments, 434 Views, 0 Votes
rm_vacpl4more 60,1956 C
1  Article
Getting Pregnant   7/18/2005

My wife is almost obsessed with becoming pregnant before she gets to old (she is 37) and I am unable to do this for her due to low sperm count. We have tried the male fertility drugs etc. with no luck. She has mentioned finding another man for strictly no-strings sex for the soul purpose of getting pregnant. Is this all to weird or is it a reasonable request?


5 Comments, 610 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
jumboman69247 45 M
6  Articles
Weak Cum Shot   7/17/2005

When I was younger, every time i would ejaculate it would go really far. Now during the past 4 years or so (now I'm 26), it doesn't squirt far at all (it drops quickly toward the ground versus being carried upward airborne), and I can't feel that force like I used to...well sometimes it DOES if its been like 4 days or so since getting off. I'm just wondering if it's ok for me to be ...


3 Comments, 196 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
madenitaly69 50 M
6  Articles
Taste test   7/17/2005

You never know a woman until you taste her.Whenevr I see a woman that turns me on it's the first thing I think about-I wonder what she tastes like!!!!!!!


1 Comments, 113 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
ineedadamnname 38 M
2  Articles
Profile help   7/16/2005

I can't seem to get any girls to respond to my profile. Being a standard member I have to wait to be contacted. I mostly get gay men who ask me to let them suck my dick and a few guys saying their scouts for the porn industry, which i am suspicious of. But I am wondering how can i get my profile more attractive to the opposite sex.


2 Comments, 190 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
lucifugeus 43,1947 C
1  Article
hey guys...just a good thing to know   7/16/2005

if you and your girl are dabbling in the world of swinging, or if you are in the first stages of trying it i have a subject to make noticed...for one try and make sure you love that person more than you could ever love another.two would be to get over the hardest part.if you are having troubles with the idea of another dude slamming your woman with his cock, how do you think she feels if ...


0 Comments, 173 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
rm_MNfun8480 43 M
1  Article
Attracted to Co-worker   7/15/2005

I am interested in hooking up with a co-worker. How do I find out if she is interested? We are both married. Is there any signs to look for?


3 Comments, 180 Views, 0 Votes
erotic99922 58 F
5  Articles
ANAL SEX HOW-TO GUIDE   7/15/2005

Most men want to try having anal sex with a woman. Most women are very apprehensive about anal sex. <br> Before any anal intercourse happens, there are necessary steps that need to be taken. <br> Anal play is very important, and you should have three or four sessions that involves anal play only. Don't attempt anal intercourse early on. Preliminary work needs to be ...


0 Comments, 420 Views, 16 Votes ,6.95 Score
erotic99922 58 F
5  Articles
Pussy Licking - A woman tells how   7/15/2005

This applies not just to me, but to all women. We do have our individual quirks, but for the most part, this will work on all women. If you want to have sex with a woman, the best thing to do is act like you really like her, but don't act like you want sex! <br> Kissing is the start, the prelude to sex. If it is not good, the juices will not flow, and you won't get much further ...


8 Comments, 700 Views, 27 Votes ,7.76 Score
Married people: aka cheaters - think twice!   7/14/2005

I just went through a spell of thinking I needed another woman...no, make that more women...to satisfy my cravings. Turns out, the more time I spent hunting the elusive one-night stands, I was ignoring the beautiful lady I took vows with. I thought long and hard about what I was doing, how it might damage my relationship, and how I would feel if she did it to me. The fact is, whether ...


3 Comments, 211 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
slightlysane4 46 M
1  Article
don't trust the sag   7/13/2005

all sagitarius women aree nuts stay away from them trust me it's not worth finding out on your own


4 Comments, 106 Views, 11 Votes
orlgetsome 56 M
2  Articles
Going Hairless   7/11/2005

For those thinking of going hairless... Nair works great, but they're serious about the part on the warning label that says not for use on genital areas! You can get most of your pubic hair off with it, but keep that stuff OFF the testicals. Yes, this is from personal experiance!


4 Comments, 239 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_hotredturbo 43 M
9  Articles
What is skuirting made off?   7/11/2005

I read an article of skuirting and I know the idea of what happens, but what is it that's skuirting out? Is it urine or cum or combination? Just wondering.


2 Comments, 235 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
arliss007 50 M
3  Articles
Meeting women on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat   7/10/2005

Just because you meet a girl in Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat doesn't neccesarily mean that you can negate the "normal" factor - meaning, just because you've sen her the way you want to have her, it doesn't exactly give you license to act like it's just gonna come to you when you meet her. Women never want to feel cheap. Even if she is a buttnaked freak. You still have to be nice, friendly and comforting; Until ...


3 Comments, 200 Views, 13 Votes ,6.16 Score
Sensuous Genital Massage   7/10/2005

The Yoni Massage <br> Yoni: pronounced yo-nee, is a Sanskrit word for the vagina, loosely translated as 'sacred space' or 'sacred temple'. It offers an alternate meaning from the western view of female genitals. In Tantra the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect. <br> The purpose of the Yoni massage is to create a space for the woman (the receiver) to ...


1 Comments, 125 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
rm_bankshot51 73 M
10  Articles
Winks   7/9/2005

I just got a wink and I don't know what to do. Now I've had winks before, assumed there was interest, sent an e-mail and got no responce. This happens most of the time. I hate having the anticipation and then end up feeling like a fool.


0 Comments, 249 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
rm_ygypsy 42,1957 C
2  Articles
First Impressions....   7/8/2005

In times of relative boredom or perhaps general loneliness, I've found myself scouring the online community for companionship. Sometimes I'm met with wonderful connections, intelligent conversation and gracious inviting smiles while at other times I get the feeling that I'm wading through a pool of sludge searching for that one profile, response or lucky encounter that might be prelude to ...


0 Comments, 154 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Looking at trying something kinky!   7/7/2005

Hello all: <br> I'm looking at trying something kinky and was wondering where is a good place to go to find out what's out there and maybe something that I'd like. <br> Any thoughts?


0 Comments, 119 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
tony7491044 62 M
5  Articles
Two woman threesome - Some basic knowledge   7/6/2005

When getting together with two woman for a threesome, a man should know the following. A man should understand that, he is not the center of the universe. He is only an active participant. He should only encourage and watch! If he is needed, he will be asked. Most men believe that here is their chance for a "double". He should understand that most women, want to experience some ...


3 Comments, 248 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
rm_FISHERBEAV 59 M
1  Article
anal   7/5/2005

I have been trying to get my wife to do anal, she says it hurts, now I can't believe their would be as many women and men doing anal if it hurts so much, Now that being said, I had her use a dildo on me cuz I figured if I could do it so could she, but it hurt, so whats the secret to pleasure with anal sex??????????? how can we do this without pain?????????????


18 Comments, 734 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_maf_ketel1 53 M
1  Article
Happy but want more....   7/4/2005

I am happy with the girl i have right now, i dont want to lose her or anything. But the big problem is that i always look at other girls, also i meet them, without her knowing about it.(always safe!) Is it so bad that i need/want more? We have sex almost every day, so there is nothing wrong. I have always been like that, i guess there must be more men(or woman) out there who are like i ...


3 Comments, 110 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
rm_CumDoMyHubby 41,1943 C
3  Articles
Meeting just a girl for a 3some type thing   7/4/2005

Me and my husband are hoping to find a girl for a 3some. I want him to do her and maybe me get to try out the curiousity of being bi. The problem is most people are couples or the girls want u to enter in a credit card to go to their site or nobody responds to your emails. Any advice... is it our profile or what?? Is it just hard to find in our area. I just don't know I mean maybe we are ...


5 Comments, 278 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
Eyes or ears   7/4/2005

What has the most impact when you meet someone for the first time? The way they look at you or the way they speak?


3 Comments, 69 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Bunny_757 41 F
4  Articles
help with MFM play   7/3/2005

hi i'm a 21 yr old F and my hubby want me to have a MFM with him and i dont know what do thing about that about him wanting a other M with us he dosen't want to talk to me about it or tell me his feelings on it or even why he likes it and i'm not sure what to do he wants to watch and play i guess and i dont know how i'll feel about haveing sex with another guy in front of him plz help


4 Comments, 472 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
SweetandWild27 48 F
3  Articles
What's Important in a Relationship?   7/3/2005

This is For Everyone to think about. So BE HONEST Can You really Love a person if You always have thoughts about being with other people? <br> What Do Most Of You look For in a Healthy relationship? <br> My Honest Answers To These Questions. <br> Yes You can, But It could be a diffrent type of Love. Like the type of ...


1 Comments, 130 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_jesskitty 31 F
1  Article
advice bi/lesbian ladies?   7/2/2005

hi there all that apply, as usual i am one of the many ladies on here that is looking for her first interaction with another lady with no response. so i was wondering what you bi/lesbian ladies out there looking for fun would want to see more of in the profiles or what would make a girl stand out and make you want them. jess


3 Comments, 167 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
erectile dysfunction-possible solutions   7/1/2005

I have this problem at times, and it is caused by medications I take for high blood pressure. <br> I have tried viagra and it does not do anything for me. <br> I am sure there lots of men out there with the same kind of problems. I would like to hear from other men who are trying to cope with or who have other suggestions for solving this problem.


1 Comments, 205 Views, 0 Votes
She's not interested in oral   7/1/2005

My wife isn't interested in letting me lick her pussie, after she started menapause. Please let me know what I can do inorder to eat out again? Thank you. (rj150)


1 Comments, 126 Views, 0 Votes
Frat_guy_10482 33 M
2  Articles
How do I get my girlfriend to open up sexuallly?   7/1/2005

Okay, so I have this beautiful girlfriend whom I love to death, but sexually she can be rather dull. This is a girl who every time we have sex, pulls me to her and insists on Missionary position everytime. She has insisted that she gets nothing out of being on top and does not like giving head because of the end product. She only seems to be willing to experiment if I try and move her ...


3 Comments, 197 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
longislander53 70 M
11  Articles
Golden Rule   6/29/2005

There are a lot of articles about members sending e-mails and not getting responses. There is a simple tool on the reponse page to scroll to say your not interested. I am a new member but I have seen this as a major issue. <br> Now I will agree when a person is e-mailing someone who does not remotely meet any of the criteria stated in the profile is annoying. Give the person ...


2 Comments, 117 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_zag3 81 M
4  Articles
Timing is almost everything   6/28/2005

BE ON TIME, please try to be ON TIME, not too early and not too late. This advice about timing comes into play when the two of you meet each other, arrive at an activity, and DURING SEX.


1 Comments, 52 Views, 0 Votes
dynamitesneon 41 M
10  Articles
What's a good way to stand out?   6/28/2005

I've been on here a while as a regular member, and I'm curious for ways to get more results. I'm good looking, fairly intelegent, and I'm all about meeting new people. What can I do to help myself out?


2 Comments, 96 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
A Woman's Advice to Men Writing Profiles   6/27/2005

Gentlemen: We all know that this is a sex site. That is not the same thing as saying that it is a forum where taking leave of all decorum and common sense will be rewarded. Few women feel any need to see a picture of your penis unless it should come with a warning label. Keep it in your pants. Give a little thought to the sort of pictures that women find sexy. A well toned stomach ...


5 Comments, 559 Views, 31 Votes ,7.75 Score
Why married couples cheat?   6/27/2005

Why married couples cheat? <br> I need to get some feed back from everyone. man, Women, couples, singles etc. <br> Is it because it gets boring to keed having sex with the same partner? <br> Lost of Spark in marriage? <br> <br> let me know what you think.


5 Comments, 254 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Treat others as you would like to be treated   6/26/2005

Many people here think they have a corner on the market when it comes to treating people like dirt. Just remember how it was when you were on the receiving end, how you felt. If some one has a standard membership here doesn't mean that they are the bottom of the barrel. If they wink at you the least you could do is acknowledge the wink and if you wish not to hear from them again tell them. ...


3 Comments, 58 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
okiecouple4fun4 55 C
10  Articles
Woman   6/25/2005

Why is it that woman dont seem to have a kinky side when it comes to sex but when given the opportunity they are more wild than the men?


5 Comments, 170 Views, 0 Votes
okiecouple4fun4 55 C
10  Articles
Whats expected?   6/25/2005

We are new to this swing thing and we were just curious about what is expected or what generally happens the first time a couple is togther?


2 Comments, 136 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
IrishWarrior_79 36 M
5  Articles
Shaving   6/25/2005

My girl really likes it when I shave below the waist, and because I like ti when she does as well, I try to comply, but it is such a pain in the ass. Any suggestions on ways to make this process a bit easier?


1 Comments, 221 Views, 0 Votes
boy shorts   6/25/2005

I prefer boy shorts to thongs but why did they have to make it sound so gay?


1 Comments, 128 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
3somes   6/25/2005

why is it that most couples want another woman for a 3some and not another man????


3 Comments, 172 Views, 0 Votes
3some   6/25/2005

I had a threesome with a couple and let the guy do oral on me am I gay???


7 Comments, 391 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Age difference   6/25/2005

Anyone got an opinion on what age difference is not acceptable. Im talking legal only here not kiddie stuff like i am attracted to older women is that okay?


2 Comments, 98 Views, 0 Votes
pics of penises   6/25/2005

do guys really think women want to see pics of their hairy penises. thank god I know better


2 Comments, 129 Views, 0 Votes
why isnt everyone on here using the IM   6/25/2005

The best source on here is the IM. the download version that is you can search who is online and it is sorted by distance from you its great


1 Comments, 215 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
setting up a meeting   6/25/2005

Just wondering why so many people on this site never really want to meet up anyone know???


0 Comments, 38 Views, 0 Votes
They Say The First Step Is The Hardest   6/25/2005

I'm a 22 year old virgin filled with hormones begging her to have sex! I have so many ideas and sexual fantasies but only one thing is holding me back. I'm a virgin. <br> I'm contradicting myself, I know but I'm sure this is a problem that many women go through. <br> People tell me to wait til I'm in love. People tell me to just go for it. <br> I'm not in love. I ...


1 Comments, 332 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
freax01 49 M
2  Articles
what the hell is really going on?   6/25/2005

so this where i start my partial bitching/and just plain dont understand women piece.my situation is as follows:i am a man 30 years old and she is a woman 26.she likes have sex and then go home .allow me to explain, she picks me up , we fuck she takes me home .i have been doing this with this chick for off and on (because shes in arizona im in california) about (geeze i just added it up ...


4 Comments, 117 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
scubadiver6911 90 M
11  Articles
thick penus verses long penus   6/24/2005

It is of my opinion that a thick penus is better for a woman's vagina then a long thin penus. There is more feeling along the vagina walls when it is filled with a fat thick penus, where as a long one will hit the end more readily and cause pain especialy if the vagina is short in length. I have an average length of 6 and half inches and have only one complaint of hurting a gal by hitting ...


1 Comments, 108 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_bankshot51 73 M
10  Articles
Need advice Ladies   6/24/2005

I'm thinking of buying a vibrator to use with my lover. My question is this: First, is there any brand/type of vibrator that works best, and second, what other areas of a woman's body, besides the obvious, give pleasure with one. Thanks, any tips will be most appreciated.


0 Comments, 125 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
spicycouple1683 40,1941 C
9  Articles
Any men??   6/23/2005

If there are any men out there looking for a hot bbw 22 years old and 44DD. Under 30 please. The bigger the better.Very eager to please, message me with contact info if interested.


1 Comments, 178 Views, 0 Votes
spicycouple1683 40,1941 C
9  Articles
Hymen???   6/23/2005

I have what i believe a unique problem, My wife has had sex with me many times and a few others and yet i believe she medically still ahs her "cherry"!!! Help what can i do and what causes this? Medically she is still a virgin.


0 Comments, 154 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Looking for a swingers dance/club in Metro Detroit Suburbs   6/22/2005

We know there are swinger clubs/dances in the Metro Detroit Area and Suburbs. Can someone recommend one that we could attend where we would feel welcome even though we have not attended a dance before? nothing worse than testing the waters and feeling like you're being looked at like an outsider. P.S. Don't need your votes just an answer to the question. Thanks


1 Comments, 134 Views, 0 Votes
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
Would you join a "Clean Fucking Buddies" group if....   6/22/2005

It appears to me that having safe sex with someone, even a one time thing itn't at the top of peoples list of most important issues for the groups. <br> I would like to know if and how many people would be interested in joining a "Clean Fucking Buddies" intrest group if I started one. <br> You know that type of group that you can't join unless you have been tested three ...


0 Comments, 128 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
EnglishPureBreed 43 M
2  Articles
Problems cumming   6/21/2005

I had a bad experience when I was 13. To cut a story short.... I was going out with a good looking girl at school. we were at my house one night and basicaly, she asked me to be her first. At the time, i wasn't ready for such a thing and politly said no. Turns out she'd told everyone at school i'd her.... the concequences was that i got the hell kicked out of me every day for about 2 ...


1 Comments, 217 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Possibilities101 67 C
6  Articles
31 things for girls too read and follow.   6/19/2005

1. We're not as perverted as you think we all are. <br> <br> <br> <br> 2. No matter what YOU say, your ex-boyfriend IS a LOSER. <br> <br> <br> 3. We like you to give us hugs and kisses sometimes too. <br> <br> 4. Don't argue with us when we call you beautiful. <br> <br> <br> <br> 5. ...


1 Comments, 238 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
Cum in my mouth   6/18/2005

I love to cum in my own mouth and swallow. I was just wondering how many other guys like to do it.


5 Comments, 389 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
Trouble with sex in the morning   6/17/2005

I'm just wondering if I am weird or something, he he. In the morning I find it extremely difficult to have sex with a partner, even though in my experience that seems to be a time when a woman is interested in playing. My problem is not getting an erection; rather, it has to do with not having the desire to have sex when I still feel so sleepy. Maybe this is an usual situation. I know it ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 0 Votes
SickFuck_n_slut 55 C
5  Articles
What the fuck???   6/16/2005

Do people honestly believe they are gonna meet he love of thier life in this place? I mean seriously, this is like goin to the singles night at the local pick up joint...the best you could dream for is that you might, if very lucky, get laid. I wonder about a lot of the people I read about in here that say ove is wha they seek...love for the moment perhaps. This is a plave to have fun, ...


4 Comments, 171 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
Finalchoice 40 M
1  Article
Girls opinion needed   6/16/2005

Lately I have been going through a tough time, with a long single patch in my life. I want to know if Im unattractive, physicaly, So I'd appreciate some honest answers from woman if they could spare the time? It may sounds stupid to anyone else, but it matters to me. Please let me know. <br> Thanks.


1 Comments, 99 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Butt Problem   6/15/2005

My wife enjoys anal sex with my fingers, toys, and my cock. She can even take all four of my fingers to the base of my hand in her ass. BUTT, the problem is after I anally penetrate her with my dick and we orgasm(usually no more than 10 minutes) she develops hemmroids the following day. I always play with her ass to stretch it first and I'm not rough during penetration but it only seems to ...


2 Comments, 712 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
spy132 37 M
2  Articles
are they afraid?   6/15/2005

Hello all! I am only a standard member so I can't email someone unless they email me first. I recently found out that you could build up points and contact anyone. Well I saved my points and finally the day I was to email them came! So I emailed all four of the women, In my emails I told them about my profile, I was not leud to them at all. (They were also standard members.) So I sent to ...


3 Comments, 239 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
spicycouple1683 40,1941 C
9  Articles
Anal sex with wife!!   6/15/2005

I have never performed anal sex. I know to some women it is painful. As with men. A couple of my female freinds, have talked to her and tried to explain to her how enjoyable it can be. I respect her limits, i just hope one day soon her limits will change. She has suggested me doing it with another woman.


2 Comments, 217 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
Do People Read the Profiles before Responding?   6/15/2005

Do people really read what someone puts in their posting? I get too many responses from guys who either don't read, or choose to ignore, concerns that are important to me. Example: I say no married men, but sure enough I get guys who think I will overlook that fact because they are sooooo fantastic. Or No Smoking. I don't want to kiss an ashtray, and I don't know why guys think I will ...


6 Comments, 198 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
cht3711 49 M
1  Article
Erection Enhancers   6/15/2005

Are there any good Herbal drugs that give firmer long lasting erection that actually work. Has anyone tried any and could recommend some.


0 Comments, 204 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
chicago_faucet 48 M
1  Article
Pittsburgh Calling.   6/14/2005

Or, "Radio Free Pittsburgh"? Whichever you prefer. <br> Here is a call out from a great guy, who has lots of passion and life to offer and share, to any girl in the Pittsburgh area that might be interested. <br> I see that there are a lot of very nice women here that live quite close to me. I could practically shout out my window, and they would hear me. But, I have ...


1 Comments, 177 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
rm_EasyEd694fun 57 M
18  Articles
To do or not to do?   6/14/2005

Hi I am about to go on a date with a woman that I have done some volunteer work with for a few years. We have sometimes flirted with each other but nothing more for whe was married. She has recently divorced her husband again. Apparently they have been on and off again for years. She has three boys. <br> The question is how do I recognize if she wants to have sex. I don't think ...


3 Comments, 147 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Sex on the side or cheating?   6/14/2005

Ok, age old question. I enjoy sex and my wife doesn't. I get my due once every two weeks whether or not I need it. Great, once a day is more to my liking and maybe even twice a week with a little ENTHUSIAM! Am I wrong to go elsewhere or should I be faithful. I am not going to leave my kisd and I do love my wife, but it is getting difficult in a passionless marrage. I have not cheated ...


4 Comments, 189 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
SickFuck_n_slut 55 C
5  Articles
KINKY - To Be Or Not To Be...   6/14/2005

My husband and I are about to embark on a sexual adventure. We’re going to live out our deepest, wildest fantasies, turning wet dreams into reality. I have a very real question, that, I am sure many women ask…what if? <br> I guess it comes down to fun versus consequences. I would like to know how other people; women in particular differentiate love from sex? How can you have ...


5 Comments, 564 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
thirsty4sex2u 48 M
2  Articles
What shall I do when she asks me to do it   6/13/2005

This is to my friends having more than girlfriends. I was deeply in love with two gals and used to have sex with them alternatively. By the time passed, one of them came to know about my relation with the other. To my surprise she didn't tried to avoid me, but she asked me to call the other one too for sex together! But I don't know how shall I say about this matter to the other one. ...


1 Comments, 175 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
all_alone3 38 M
29  Articles
why wount peple join   6/12/2005

how come people wont joinmy group are Topic(s): Advice, Anal Sex, Interracial


0 Comments, 35 Views, 0 Votes
ED drugs   6/12/2005

Hey- can anyone tell me if theres a difference in the way that these ED drugs effect you? I understand that Cilias supposedly lasts longer.. But does Levitra give firmer erections? or does Viagra provide more vigor even though it is not as long lasting? And what about if you double up on the dousages? Does that make a difference? <br> Just curious


2 Comments, 191 Views, 0 Votes
ihvirisheyestoo 64 F
40  Articles
Passion of the Storm   6/12/2005

It's storming tonight. The sky bursting with streaks of light, the rain pounding down. Looking out the window at the beauty of nature's passion I know the sudden urge to feel it against my skin. Eyes reflecting the next streak of lightning, excitement burning that much brighter. Moving through the quiet house on bare feet, careful not to wake anyone and slipping out the patio door into the ...


2 Comments, 127 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
What is wrong with people   6/12/2005

I have been asking myself over and over again this question. I have been on this site for a couple of years plus under another handle the same time.I have revamped my profile at least 5 times, put new pics on, changed my ideas on what i want but still i get a limit of replies.Any suggestions?


2 Comments, 302 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
How do I get her to try?   6/11/2005

I would like my wife to let me cum in her mouth, but she says she does not like the taste. It as only happened once, by accident, but she did gag, either from the taste or the surprise. I'm not asking her to swallow even, I'm okay if she wants to spit it out after. <br> Women, how did you overcome your fear of taking it in the mouth? Men, if you had/have a partner that was ...


2 Comments, 127 Views, 1 Votes
Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat Scam?   6/10/2005

I went to the appropriate page to turn my renewal off. When I do this that page shows "OFF", yet my homepage still shows "ON". This happened last month and I was charged. I wrote requesting a refund and my letter was ignored. LOOKS LIKE A SCAM TO ME


3 Comments, 128 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
all_alone3 38 M
29  Articles
which is better   6/10/2005

is it better for me to use a head shot or cock shot look at my photos if you can and tell me or e mail me


2 Comments, 88 Views, 1 Votes
scubadiver6911 90 M
11  Articles
exercising your kiegels   6/9/2005

I think it very important to excercise your kiegels. Every time I urinate, I cut off the flow and count 10 seconds, this is very good for bladder control. Being single, every morning while watching the news on TV I play with my penus and get it hard then I press my kiegels a 100 times. Then while sitting in a reclining chair I cause my penus to come up from a low position to a high position ...


3 Comments, 90 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_morefun232 70 C
4  Articles
Other woman   6/9/2005

We have been swinging for about a year .The first couple we were with was okey. We started to be friends but I wasn't attracted to the husband. The wife is great, she talked us into meet just her. Ist broken rule. She spent a weekend with us, slept in the middle, 2nd broken rule. She asked my husband to meet her separtly, He declined. Almost 3rd broken rule. He still wants to see her as a ...


2 Comments, 218 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
spandito 60 M
1  Article
men in speedos   6/9/2005

Ladies, Do you find it sexy when a man is on the beach in a speedo or little bikini.


8 Comments, 333 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
youngstud20112 40 M
1  Article
Anally deprived   6/7/2005

For some reason i am obsessed with anal sex. I think about it all the time, and want it all the time. However, my girlfriend doesn't like to do it. So this really sucks for me. The weird thing is that when we do have it, which is usally once every couple months, she usually has an orgasm or it occurs without any pain. I don't know what it is but she just has this really neagative outlook on ...


2 Comments, 197 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
abear0714 57 F
1  Article
Clit Piercing   6/7/2005

Hello, <br> I have seen a picture of a clit that has been pierced. It looked so hot that I have tought of getting mine done. Only I dont' want to make my clit less sensitive. Can someone message me and let me know if it makes you hornier, or if it makes your clit less sensitive. thanks abear


5 Comments, 465 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
your relationship and sex sites   6/6/2005

If you have a mate that's always on sex sites that does not always mean u do not satisfy your mate. It most likely means that ur mate is open to things u may not have discussed or he/she is willing to bet that u are not wanting or prepared to do.


3 Comments, 81 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
castellano73 53 M
2  Articles
electro pads   6/5/2005

hello, just wondered if some of you could give me useful tips and advice on how to use electro pads, where to apply them for better results and if they can also be fun for males (even though I am more itnerested in using them for giving pleasure to a woman. Just bought the device and am new to that particular one....any help will be much appreciated thanks


1 Comments, 113 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
how to attract women to view / contact you?   6/3/2005

Hi all, I'm a married man and my wife doesn't know that I use this site. I'm hesitate to post pic with my face as i don't want anyone that know me and recognize me and somehow tip it to my wife. Anyone has any good suggestions on how to get members attention as being a Standard Member?


5 Comments, 251 Views, 7 Votes ,0.24 Score
kaybubbles 38 F
1  Article
The wonders of a VIBRATOR   5/31/2005

Ok everyone knows that many single women today own a vibrator. But there is nothing more erotic to me than bring one to bed when I am with a man. There are many ways to use it in that situation. 1. Use it to masturbate for him. This will turn him on and show that you are comfertable with your sexuality. 2. Use it on your clit during intercourse this will cause an amazing sensation. ...


4 Comments, 389 Views, 28 Votes ,6.12 Score
Your First Email!!!   5/29/2005

I believe part of your success using Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat is how you write your emails. <br> A long time ago I used to cut and paste my emails. Almost no one would respond to my email. Then I tried the one-liner emails. There were no responses from the one-liners. I was confused and left the Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat world. <br> I learned a bit more and came back to Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat, I wanted to test my skills. The emails ...


0 Comments, 197 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
madenitaly69 50 M
6  Articles
Never through it to the wind   5/28/2005

Caution-I't s an unsafe, sometimes creepy world out there. Unfortunatley we can't have the free sex of the past, it's a life and death situation now.Get to know your partner-where theve been and where there going-Everything we have must be built on ultimate trust!!!!!!!!We have no choice now!


1 Comments, 52 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
RolanBishop 42 M
0  Articles
Help for a newcomer   5/27/2005

Lemme put MY 2 cent in this mix of rampant sexuality. <br> First off I am a REAL-LIFE Virgin, who has always been into the foot fetish scene dominatrix Couples/Lez...just about everything. However I have NEVER had a chance to do anything at all. Not even go on a date or see a tittie in real life! it's really fuckin pathetic, I think. <br> So basically any ...


0 Comments, 74 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_scotch1217 38 M
3  Articles
Truth In The Story   5/26/2005

For every reaction, there is an equal and opposite reaction. In order to gain anything, one must first give up something in return. These are the supposed founding principles of our modern society, written in stone or not. I spent many years pondering existence. I spent many years pondering why? I could never quite put my finger on exactly what makes mankind keep on ticking. Finally after ...


1 Comments, 93 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Open2tryingit 59 M
1  Article
Men are stupid! From a male for the ladies.   5/26/2005

Ladies you have got to learn that men are stupid. I don't mean from a book, intellectual regaurd. I am speaking completely from the male female perspective. The reality of relationships. As males we are concrete when it comes to relationships we don't know how to read between the lines which is what all of you normally expect. At some point you ahve to realize you are asking for too much. ...


3 Comments, 144 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_sixsixtwelve 54 M
4  Articles
How do I come across as real?   5/26/2005

Question for ya. I know myself well enough t' say I come across superficially as cold and arrogant. Now, I want to be honest, but that coldness is not exactly something I want to project.I don't want all warm and fuzzy, neither. I'm human: I have good and bad traits, few of which I intend to hide.Any suggestions on how to do a happy medium?


2 Comments, 63 Views, 0 Votes
Oral Sex on wife.   5/25/2005

I have been marrie to my wife for 10 yrs. And I just recently got into oral sex on her. <br> We are both new to this experience and I ask her if she enjoys what i do to her and he says yes. <br> What can she do to avoid the strong odor that she releases from down there? <br> is it Normal to have that strong odor? can she uses something to get rid of this off ...


2 Comments, 233 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
mike7136 36 M
1  Article
Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat or alt???   5/25/2005

Have you guys had better luck on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat or alt? Which do you prefer and why? Thanks!


0 Comments, 111 Views, 0 Votes
Flanking??   5/25/2005

The most sensitive parts of the body are sometimes the least visited. But I love every part of a man, even the bottocks. I wanted to mix adrenaline with ecstasy, so what's a good flanking manoeuvre??


0 Comments, 76 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Lick, suck or what?   5/24/2005

Ladies I would like to know what makes you cum too cum the hardest (the big one)? Do you it licked top to bottom, side to side, across the top only, in and out, the clit sucked, sucked and licked at the same time, licked and fingered, sucked licked and finger all at once, ass play with oral, etc? Also, would you tell someone how to do it if they couldn't hit your spot?


4 Comments, 281 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
my woman might be bi   5/24/2005

my woman has had several curiosities about being with another woman over the years. I tell her that if she ever wants to try that she has my permission but she can never bring her self to do it.


3 Comments, 90 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_Funks0uL 46 M
1  Article
FOREPLAY SECRETS!!!   5/23/2005

Let me tell you.. Always start with FOREPLAY! Never ever forget that! <br> Base on my experiences, most women are need to be seduced to bring up their big big libido. <br> So.. Let me tell you my secrets.. Well.. it’s worth to try <br> Start with Her Hands! 1. Hold her hand gently in yours. Kiss the backs of her fingers. Fingers are a woman's most ...


1 Comments, 99 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
rm_MrFreaky36 51 M
1  Article
getting the second email   5/23/2005

I've been a member for a couple of months now and have gotten a few responses to my profile, but after we each exchange 1 email back and forth, the woman haven't sent a reply. Now I haven't been rude or crude in my email, even if they ask for a fantasy of mine after telling me one of theres. The women have even asked if I'm serious about meeting. I wouldn't be here if I wasn't, but I'm ...


0 Comments, 161 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
Ever wonder how to have a winning personal ad?   5/21/2005

If you've been on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat for any length of time you've seen tons of profiles. I've noticed that many of the women seem to mirror each other because a lot of them say the same things in terms of what they want in a relationship. I've enhanced mine several times trying to generate more interest just like everyone else. I draw the line at being dishonest about who and what I am and want though. ...


1 Comments, 140 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
It's what's inside that matters   5/21/2005

I'm one of those people who needs to lose about 25 lbs. Right now, I would say I am average to ample. I hold my weight well, and unless completely naked, it's hard to tell I am overweight. Not being conceited, I am attractive, honest, open-minded, and easy-going. For the last month I have been eating right, and exercising, and feel really good about my progress. However, I have a problem ...


2 Comments, 101 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
making a pass   5/21/2005

I've often wondered how a married guy can discreetly make a pass to married lady where the message is clear, yet there is a way to back peddle if isn't interested in that sort of thing. I think that possibly a smile combined with long, lingering eye contact might be the ticket? Is this true ladies?


0 Comments, 110 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
playininoly 54 F
4  Articles
PHOTOS   5/21/2005

Just a short message to all you men who don't have photos on your profile... <br> I can't tell you how many times I don't respond to the emails I receive from you because I get tired of asking for a photo. You need to realize the ratio of men to women is huge! Women are getting bombed with responses from men, and the only way to weed through them is by what is written first off, ...


6 Comments, 323 Views, 22 Votes ,5.17 Score
certainlyseven 41 M
1  Article
I want to watch my wife with another man   5/21/2005

I need help. I want to watch my wife with another man--or two or three. <br> A little backround...We have been together for 10 years, but my job has forced me to move out of state. She wouldn't move, so we have decided to stay together but lead separate lives...date others, etc. I am only home on the weekends. <br> This is working out fairly well, but I have found that the ...


1 Comments, 255 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Do fems for couples really exist?   5/20/2005

I'm wondering if anyone has some good suggestions on meeting a fem for a bi relaionship with a couple... <br> Obviously it is difficult, because so many couples are looking for women... <br> In my case it is the wife looking for a girl for a threesome, not the husband.... and still we have difficulties... <br> Tried the ads (such as Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat), tried the local bars, ...


2 Comments, 104 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
How do you tell your husband you are bi?   5/20/2005

Any suggestions would be helpful!! <br> I've had a few minor experiences, but find myself caught up in the girl/girl fantasy more often these days... <br> How do I bring this up to my hubby? Should I just try to find someone to bring home and surprise him? I know that most guys would be all about it, but I wonder if it will somehow upset him? Anyone been in this situation ...


0 Comments, 137 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
wifey3223 55 F
20  Articles
being noticed & seeking attention. not the case !!   5/18/2005

Hello all wifey again, I Had a man ask me do , I do all ......I post or is it me looking for attention like others on here. Well, Im not fake ;;;;;; I, m very real & TRUE. What I give is what you make of our time & experience. We can talk, play dominos look at the wall, its all on our connection. I feel , Im alot of fun .I havent gotten any complaints & i recieve new ones daily.Thank you ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
cumtomenow727 47 M
2  Articles
Things Are Different   5/17/2005

When my boyfriend and I were still in the early stages of our relationship, we went through the formality of sharing our experiences of telling our parents and families of our sexual preference. His family was less accepting of the news, but that would be another article for him to share. <br> However, I felt compelled to tell my story because of the reactions I get when I tell ...


1 Comments, 198 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
direption69 54 F
20  Articles
I'll call; I'll wait; I'm busy; I'm not....   5/17/2005

it started w/ an agreement -- no attachments. We were not going to bring our lives into this arrangement. Purely fun and dangerous. We knew -- one look into each others eyes and we verbally warned each other -- this would be dangerous. <br> No lies, no matter what. We are adults and in charge of our own feelings. No lies. <br> Well, now this terrible year has almost ...


1 Comments, 169 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
she wants big one   5/16/2005

My wife wants to be fucked by a man or more with a large dick. I hurt her with only 7.5. How should we prepare her for a big one.


6 Comments, 379 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
Rebastoys 56 F
1  Article
Golden Showers   5/15/2005

I have been having sex with a married man for a number of years now... he has always told me he wants a golden shower and wants it to come from me... I can not do it... I have tried and tried... I just don't know how to go pee, while I am doing that. Can I get some advice.... I know he would love you for it... and if I succed... I will post the story on here, to let everyone know how great ...


4 Comments, 676 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
rm_sixsixtwelve 54 M
4  Articles
Abstinence-- Good or bad?   5/15/2005

I think it depends on the situation, whether one can consider abstinence in a positive or negative light. Sometimes, though, I think it stinks. On the other hand, I think mutually acknowledged attraction is key to breaking abstinence. No deep thoughts there. Any comments?


4 Comments, 59 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
kneebooboos2004 51 F
4  Articles
How do I stay friends with one who has a crush on me ?   5/15/2005

I mae the greatest girl.. She is very wise & I see her as a good friend.. I opened up to her quickly , as we share alot of things & beleifs. Now she says she has a crush on me & wants to leave the room we share. I don't have those feelings, but can't imagine her gone. I told her we will always have our friendship. I hope this is enough. Is there more i can say, or shall I just let it go ?


0 Comments, 80 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Misterallnighter 63 M
2  Articles
Help! Is a friend always a friend.   5/14/2005

OK. I have a female friend - never had sex with her - and we've both been through alot this past year and a half. I made a pass at her last year and she blew a gasket, but we're still friends. The last couple months we've been flirting quite a bit, have gone porn shopping together, shared a cabin together, celebrated Beltane - I jumped through the fire naked - and neither of us have made ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 0 Votes
Are scars a turn-off?   5/13/2005

I have a few scars from two different emergency surgerys on my tummy. They are faded but big and noticable. I try to keep in good health and keep my body fit. Are scars a turn-off? Would this make a difference in your attraction to me if we were to meet? Would you want to know up front? Or is it unimprotant? I'm just curious on people's opinions.


9 Comments, 254 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
question for women Do you like moustaches?   5/12/2005

Hi there was just wondering if women find moustaches attractive or too 70s, also is oral sex better or worse if the guy has one. thanks for replies.


8 Comments, 392 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
rm_wetpussff25 43 F
1  Article
to share or not to share   5/11/2005

My boyfriends fantasy is for me to be with another woman. I know he would like to join in. I told him he could with me, however I am not interested in allowing him to penetrate another woman. I sometimes feel I am being unfair. I need to know if in fact I am being unfair or if I am justified of my feelings.


3 Comments, 280 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
hornytoad7691 55 M
3  Articles
Being Ignored in Chat rooms   5/11/2005

I was just wondering how to enter into chat rooms and get others to talk to you? I have entered many times and tried to talk to some and nothing just like I am not there. I was just wondering how is the best way to get started cause I think I am doing something wrong?


1 Comments, 182 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Pyro36932 47 M
6  Articles
A general Question for all   5/10/2005

If someone winkd at you or sends you mail and your a standerd member how would you responed. Also This might be dum but when someone tells you to IM them and they give you a different sreen name do they mean on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat or not. If so How would I do that? I'm trying to learn!


1 Comments, 150 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Another one   5/9/2005

I have been in a long-term relationship for a long time without previously having any other sexual relations and am now wanting to discreetly try to gain some more sexual experiences with another woman or women. It doesn't really matter if she finds out. She knows how I feel. How long does it take to happen? Is what I am doing wrong or unusual?


2 Comments, 139 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
wifey3223 55 F
20  Articles
alot of people ask me to do article instead of question   5/8/2005

We, ll I dont because. I realized you all dont read articles. Also what isnt a question to you is to me? Also being called illeterate isnt nice, I agree with 1 of my Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat friends. THIS AINT A SPELLING BE, YOU ALL WOULDNT WNT TO HEAR MY COMMENTS ON YOU! this is not for us to judge one another, as a couple said on here. Never thought nore expected people looking for the same , asking, saying ...


1 Comments, 73 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Does Penis Size Really Matter?   5/7/2005

I think its kind of humorous when I ask a man to describe his dick to me and he starts to stammer and stutter as he, almost apologetically tells me that he is "just average". What size is that I ask? Without exception he will almost whisper that he is not huge, just average. Average is relative in my book. Men have that whole performance anxiety thing happening. I understand it to a ...


6 Comments, 782 Views, 29 Votes ,6.75 Score
rm_satyrnympho 44 C
2  Articles
Deciding if its a go as a couple   5/6/2005

When meeting with another couple or person there is a moment when as a couple when you have to decide is it a go or do we say no thanks.This can be awkward and many times it seems difficult to discuss this with your partner in the company of the potential hook-up. To avoid this we always try to chat, exchange photos and talk on the phone before meeting. We make it clear that we aren't ...


3 Comments, 188 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
Not turn up   5/4/2005

For the men. Why do u set up as place to meet then not turn up?


0 Comments, 166 Views, 0 Votes
What should I do?   5/3/2005

Several months ago, prior to our marriage, I found out that Brenda was trying to set up a lunch date with an out-of-town with a guy she met online. When I questioned her about it, she became very defensive, stating that I no longer trusted her, then went on to say that if anything were to happen, that she would call me immediately. I reminded her that our agreement was that I would ...


4 Comments, 402 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Jory72 51 M
2  Articles
Does Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat work?   5/3/2005

Does Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat really work or is it just full of fakes? I'm not an unattractive guy, my profile is not obscene or in poor taste, I have pics (not of my manhood, but of my face and upper body from the waist), and I don't come out with bad or obscene laguage when trying to start a conversation with someone. So what is it. Is it just my area I am in is full of fakes or what? I'm not looking for ...


2 Comments, 276 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
loss of a friend.   5/1/2005

okay, heres the thing. and i need just a little bit of guidence. i made a true female friend some years ago. we were so strong. a best friends for life kind of thing. now ive always been a strong believer of platonic relationships (my other best friend is female and ive known her all my life, and even though people say we should get together...nothing). <br> <br> ...


5 Comments, 1116 Views, 19 Votes ,1.54 Score
stickman620 66 M
1  Article
Would you critique my profile?   4/29/2005

Is anybody willing to critique my profile? I have not had my profile on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat for very long and I'm wondering if anyone would want to give me some feedback. Tell me what you think about it. I would appreciate an honest and straight forward opinion of what you think. Just curious.


1 Comments, 208 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
A Little Attention   4/29/2005

Hi. I've been on this site for a little while and I was wondering if there are any secrets to meeting people on here. Whenever I go into the chat rooms it seems like everyone knows everyone else and I can't seem to break into the conversation. I understand that it'd be better if I were a premium member but I can't afford that so does anyone have any suggestions for me?


2 Comments, 174 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
direption69 54 F
20  Articles
Color Coded Sex   4/29/2005

REPORTED TO Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat: Hi! Good morning everyone! I just read somewhere that people want it to know how to recognize everyone when they meet. Can I suggest people wearing one of those bright wristbands? You know the ones people are using now to support a cause or organization. It could be a bright wide rubber band or a rubber bracelet. What do guys think? <br> ...


6 Comments, 491 Views, 6 Votes
jacob3224 58 M
6  Articles
priority first   4/27/2005

I met a girl on this site, we chatted for a while, then we got together and went out a couple times, and had a great time , ,I would like to see her again , but my schedual doesn't permit it for a while , ,she's angry and thinks I'm not interested anymore, , which is not the case at all, , I explained the situation, , but she got sarcastic and left...I tried to contact her since then but I ...


1 Comments, 163 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Jayne46 77 T
10  Articles
Being Successful in Sex   4/27/2005

I have good news for people on here that feel discouraged, down, or inadequate. My life has been up and down. I'm 58 and loved and lost multiple times. I've owned four businesses and only half of them successful. I've had to deal with being transgendered, bi-polar, and fighting in an unpopular war and I'm still here and possitive. <br> No matter how bad you think your life sucks ...


0 Comments, 227 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
867LOVE2206 45 M
10  Articles
Mistakes Women Make   4/27/2005

A woman can know when she found a man that really cares for her and what she really wants. Here goes! Usually tha easiest way is when "she dosent believe a word he said" SUPPRISED! <br> Usually 89.9% of the time a man is being pushed away because the woman probably see him as 'too good to be true'(he definately can't be real). The reason for this is the ...


6 Comments, 239 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
greyangel3 57,1940 C
1  Article
Is It Polite To Ask For Pics Right Away (Online Dating Ettiquette)   4/26/2005

As couple that is new to this online dating scenario, we have consistently found ourselves in a situation where we were attracted to a couple by their profile...began talking a lot and are either left wondering what they look like or are disappointed by the picture we finally recieve. Which is left us wondering when the polite time to ask for a pic is. For all you newbies like us out there ...


3 Comments, 161 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_Disciple316 49 C
17  Articles
ARE WE HOOKED FOR LIFE?   4/26/2005

We have been talking about swinging for a while. She loves...CRAVES big dicks and unfortunately, I do not have one...if I did I'd be deadly. She gets really wild when I used large dildos on her, it unleashes a side of her that I have not seen before. Anyways, we just recently had our first threesum. We met him online and quickly invited him over when he met our requirements(9" or bigger, ...


2 Comments, 185 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
867LOVE2206 45 M
10  Articles
THE TROUBLE WITH LOVE IS..........................   4/25/2005

So, the trouble with LOVE is........? Well, for starters, love (in my opinion), is an over-rated expression that is given way too much credibility. It is also technically just a desire to have. Don't agree, well, ask yourself this question, how many times have you seen an awesome pair of shoes, a bag whatever, and said the famous three words, "I love this". Well how long then after you have ...


2 Comments, 94 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_dome6984 40 F
3  Articles
Dating with an STD   4/25/2005

Ok people got a good question for you. What if you were to meet someone and you two clicked really well, when yall were really close and comfortable with each other they told you that they had an STD. Would you still want to be with this person or would you drop them like a hot potatoe?? This is for men and women I need to know your opinions. So hit me up with your responses.


4 Comments, 271 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
867LOVE2206 45 M
10  Articles
What men want   4/23/2005

Well it is always a challenge to figure out what the brothas want or if they are comfortable or love what you have to offer. Then again getting a man is easy, keeping him is the real deal. <br> The idea i'm trying to give is that a lot of sistas out ther thinks that all a man wants is to get between their legs. Mind you majority does want to get there, but what about the other ...


2 Comments, 134 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
swmohunny79 45 F
12  Articles
comparing   4/22/2005

Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. <br> The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing. <br> Don't judge a person by a persons reputation, get to know them first. Then decide what you think of them


0 Comments, 132 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
rm_instantsaver 66 M
1  Article
do it properly!!   4/20/2005

ok guys, we've all got one, but PLEASE when you take a picture of it at least do it propperly, no one wants to see a cock sticking out of a pair of shorts or from under a t shirt, just looks so tacky. so come on, GET 'EM OFF!! and show what you're offering propperly! I expect there are many who agree with this!


2 Comments, 274 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score