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Chat Room Behavior   11/19/2003

Can you be successful in finding a relationship here? I was fortunate in less than a week I found a woman in the same situation as myself we live less than 5 miles from each other. We have met enjoyed great sex together and look forward to a long and mutually beneficial friendship. <br> Here are some words of advice based on behaviors I have personally observed. In your ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 37 Votes ,7.47 Score
leftsidepolitik 46 M
3  Articles
Its ALL about the first impression   11/19/2003

Does a woman know within the first five minutes whether or not she wants to sleep with a guy based on first impressions? I heard this once but I want to see if I can use this article as a way to sort out the truth from the fiction. If you feel that your judgement of first impressions are excellent or in your favor....please mark accordingly. If you feel that impressions are not as ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 79 Votes ,8.13 Score
EYES ARE INTERESTED , BUT NOT MY COCK   11/19/2003

Hi there . thought id get some male advise on this subject...As far back as i can remember it has taken more than just a good looking naked female to arrouse me. sure i get hard like any other , but at 39 i find im harder for longer while im masterbating .... I often question womens ability to entertain and entise a man , but also i wonder ifthis is just asking too much. these days i ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 35 Votes ,3.06 Score
5 pics out of 100!   11/19/2003

To all you gentlemen who want to know why no responses?!! Well how about looking at my who is viewing me list 5 out of 100 had a pic posted! F I V E ! Answer any questions?


0 Comments, 7 Views, 29 Votes ,4.64 Score
Re: Shaved or not to shave   11/19/2003

Personally I prefer a man to be as clean as I am. I am shaved and dont exactly like it when an ungroomed man expects me to suck on his cock, which would also involve choking down his nasty fuckin hair too! I have the best answer for alot of male questions! If YOU wont do it dont expect US to do it either!


0 Comments, 29 Views, 34 Votes ,7.10 Score
My cock farted once?   11/19/2003

One time - My GF was jerking me off like a mad cow - And my cock was soooo hard .. Then it farted ? <br> Has this happened to anyone else before ?


0 Comments, 2 Views, 23 Votes ,0.33 Score
rm_giantskaman 51 M
3  Articles
Eating Mature PUSSY   11/18/2003

A mature woman is NOT, thank god, a 20 something with little experience. She is a woman that has driven around the block quite a few times, whether with one or many man. The mature woman has a need to have her pussy loved in the way that she KNOWS works for her. Lets have her invite you back for more sex since you now know what to do... <br> first, her pussy needs to be ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 23 Votes ,7.92 Score
rm_kalistes 48 M
1  Article
RE: You men want more responses?? 14 helpful suggestions   11/18/2003

That was a GREAT article, and 100% true as well! However...... (always the however) <br> In my perusals of the various profiles and chat rooms here on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat, I noticed a few other things that if everyone were to take a few minutes to consider, could make a match for either sex, couple, or group that much easier to accomplish. <br> 1. Make sure you have accurate ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
The right way to anal   11/17/2003

, put another finger into it. She must be relax and enjoy the the finger movement. When the hole is fit for three fingle, it is the right time to put your cock in. You may like to have a plastic glove to prevent your finger get dirty. Wearing a condom is a must for anal sex. The best position to start with or easier to enter is the lady lying on her back and raise both feet up and ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
The right way to anal   11/17/2003

She must be relax and enjoy the the finger movement. When the hole is fit for three fingle, it is the right time to put your cock in. You may like to have a plastic glove to prevent your fingerAnal sex is one of the best I ever enjoy. Most girl will find it pain and refuse to it, but, if both of you know the trick, it will be the most wonderful place you will want to do it everytime. ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
MmLovesToLick 39 C
2  Articles
mmm when live seems so borring   11/17/2003

when life seems so borring, just fine your self someone to play with like a man or a wome or both more th merrier i say.. <br> so when life seems so borring lick, suck and fck i say all at once or in any order that you may


0 Comments, 48 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Men's & Woman's Genital Size Up!   11/17/2003

Okay this might sound weird and I haven't tested it out yet but I was kinda thinking about how a man or a woman can size up a person's size down there by judging what car the person drives. For exampe one car can be big and wide meaning the guy or ladies gentials are big and wide and so on forth tell me what u think?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes
rm_Twonkie 74 M
5  Articles
Frauds?   11/17/2003

There's an advice note called "Hot girls, we know you are frauds!" This is also my impression. I have exchanged mail with two women who asked me to send mail to their personal addresses, and the result was a carefully-tailored reply. The reply asked that I go to a porno site -- for photos of a different woman. This is bad because the frauds make it difficult to know who is ...


0 Comments, 0 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_Guardien 40 M
1  Article
Why can't I find someone my age?   11/17/2003

I offen try to hook up with girls my age, they say I am cute, they say I am a kind man, but hooking up... they always wanna be "just friends, " but older women can not get enough of me, they hit on me like crazy and want me madly, I admit, sex is fantastic, they enjoy my size, I enjoy the sounds they make and experience, but I would love to soon find true romance with with someone my age, I ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Well Hell!!!!!   11/17/2003

Why is it that other peoples articles get posted like the tips to men on how to get responses but yet many and I do mean MANY of mine that I take the time to do just get shitcanned and I get no fucking points! I am a standard member trying to be involved here and trying to EARN xtra points because god knows they sure as fuck dont give them away! But yet all my efforts go right out the ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes
WHY DONT WOMEN WANNA TRY ANAL SEX   11/17/2003

i have been tryin to get my girlfriend to try anal sex and she will let me lube it all up an get about the head of my dick in hten she pulls away and say no way not gonna fit is there any special way to do for the first timers please somone let me know


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
jiffyjohn2 62 M
1  Article
Penis inlargement pills   11/17/2003

OK, seems to me that taking a pill to permanantly increase the size of an adult males penis is impossible. I have gone so far as to email a couple of the online sales sites about the safety or effectivness of a product but never recieved a reply. Does anyone have advice or expierience with enlargement products?


0 Comments, 1 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
stone cold wife   11/16/2003

wondering if anyone else is in my position and if they have any advise.. my lady and i have been together for 8 years, i am a fit atheletic dark male and she a slim red head , with two of her own ...i met her when the were young and have realistically made them my own... now that they have grown and only one is at home i find my ladies usuall medium sex drive has gone from medium to ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
I need some advice from the ladies.....   11/16/2003

Oral sex tips. Ladies, give me some oral sex tips. I know several that seem to work but in the quest to be an expert in that category I need a few more. A favorite of most of the ladies seems to be me spelling our words with my tongue and then having her guess which words I spell. If she guesses right then she gets a surprise. If she guesses wrong then I keep spelling. Most women ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 0 Votes
jjjsjr 45 M
2  Articles
Picking up women   11/16/2003

I find that whenever I want to get together with a woman for just a one nighter, I can never think of what to say or be able to feel comfortable hitting on her. If it's some one I'm interested in seriously and want a real relationship, I have no problem. But when I'm in the bar I don't know what line women will go for. I guess I'm too much of a gentelmen or too shy. Can the women tell ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Is it all about looks?   11/16/2003

I'm not going to meet Angie Everheart or Elle McPherson) but I also will meet based on personality. Am I alone? Does everyone judge based solely on age and looks? I'm not ugly nor unattractive by any means. I actually use Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat for my fetishes (older women, and couples of all ages) becauseI'm just curious what most people look for. When I get a message I'll always reply. Now I'm not a woman ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 0 Votes
rm_get_lucky 61 M
4  Articles
What do women want   11/15/2003

Why is that women, and men for that matter don't believe a guy when he is and has been honest in a profile that has pics posted.I have had most people on this site think that I am or call me a liar when I say the size of my cock. I thought I had an average cock but don't have any to compare to. Mine is 8" long & 5+ around, Is this average, small or large, I just don't know. I thought a ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
THE MAN IS NO GOOD!   11/14/2003

THIS IS A MEASSAGE FOR WOMEN WHO HAVE MEN LIVING WITH THEM AND NOT DOING ANYTHING FOR YOU. NO MATTER THE YEARS OR THE MONTHS, NO WOMEN SHOULD FEEL THE NEED TO TAKE CARE OF ANOTHER WOMENS . WOMEN PAY FOR MOST OF WHATS AROUND THE HOUSE, DO MOST OF WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE AROUND THE HOUSE. WHEN DO WE GET A BREAK FROM COOKING 5 DAYS A WEEK?, CLEANING 7 DAYS A WEEK. I WISH AND HOPE THAT EVERY ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 2 Votes
juniorjumper28 49 M
2  Articles
RE...help my man wont go down on me!!!   11/14/2003

First thing you need to understand is that his previous experience downstairs was the worst experience a man can have. first of all are your going down on him? Second you might start showering with him to show him that that area gets regular attention but dont be obvious about what your doing, in other words show him its not like his last experience but dont say SEE I PRE-CLEAN THE CARPET! ...


0 Comments, 92 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_sexychelly21 44 C
1  Article
CANT FND THE GIRL FOR OUR THREESOME   11/14/2003

Me and my boyfriend have been looking for a hot girl to have a threesome with for almost a year now. We have had some contacts but they are all couples or single men. We have already had a threesome with another man and we both thought it was great. Now we want to have a threesome with a hot woman. We even have a place picked out with a jacuzzi so we can enjoy ourselves the most. For some ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
juniorjumper28 49 M
2  Articles
So many standard memberships!!   11/14/2003

In my area when I do a search all I get are standard members, women that cant respond to me! I am 99% sure these are women that get your email just to turn you on to there paysite. I do however see some of these women when I use the "see who's online" feature. I know all about the traditional "The guy should make the first move" cliche but whats the deal, are all these women juts a tease?? ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_eric71438 43 M
12  Articles
RE: Breaking up with a girl that claims she will never...   11/14/2003

well i went through this not to long ago, you cant return calls, if must change number or just have hers blocked out, avoid all contact and dont cause a scene and dont give the satisfaction of a big verbal fight, she will take it as if he still has time to fight then he still cares he just doesn't know it, change your pattern of life, take every day as a new and as much as it might hurt ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
sxytlk90 61 M
1  Article
re: Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat chat rooms   11/14/2003

i think in the chat rooms, people already know each other. When someone they know enters, it's hey, (whoever) from people in the room. I can't tell you how to get in that circle, because I don't know. I can tell you this.........go into instant messenger, and page someone you might be interested in. It is private, the whole room doesn't see the message you send, and you chat one on one. ...


0 Comments, 267 Views, 0 Votes
tonysoza 44 M
2  Articles
trying for my maid   11/13/2003

I work abroad and come down on holidays. At home I have this young maid to whom I am attracted. She is not very Good looking but has a good figure and a good ass. I feel she is attracted to me too but scared that my wife might know if she has an affair with me. I touched her on her tits and did kiss her a couple of times; she responds very hesitantly. she says my wife will come to know ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 231 Votes ,6.53 Score
rm_giantskaman 51 M
3  Articles
Picking Up MATURE WOMAN   11/13/2003

It is VERY easy...I've been with over 100 mature woman. 70% where the type, "what you are winking at me? but I'm old"! Damn it is fun to bed them, they always are shocked at how I love them...their husbands NEVER did many of the things I did to them... <br> On with WHERE to meet them. <br> Remember that this is SALES. YOu are SEllING yourself as a stud. ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
rm_sexyARMY72 44 M
3  Articles
5 Warning Signs That You're Better Off Alone   11/13/2003

1. Regardless of whether you are in a relationship or not, make sure you have a strong support network of women friends. Rely on them. <br> 2. Go with your gut. Most women have dependable and fairly accurate instincts, good judgment and reliable intuition, which they choose to ignore a lot of the time. Don't. <br> 3. It's probably not love after only one month, or ...


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leftsidepolitik 46 M
3  Articles
Open minded people   11/13/2003

Would you condescend to love a man/woman even if s/he thinks lowly of him/herself? Or in other words, are the chances of a man/woman looking for sympathy/attention in order to have sex good, bad, or somewhere inbetween????


0 Comments, 1 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
I_like_watching 51 F
1  Article
What does it really mean, when your guy says he needs some space?   11/12/2003

Does he really need some space or he really want to end up this relationship? I think this expression is used incorrectly. Sometimes guys may not find the right words to ask you for sometime off in the relationship. I guess he is afraid of your reaction, that for sure, it is not going to be any good. You reaction must be understandable since you put a lot in this relationship and one day he ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 73 Votes ,7.77 Score
Don't crop those photos!   11/11/2003

Guys, there's nothing tackier than a photo with your exes face blacked out. Or how about that clever cropping that leaves only a female arm draped around your neck? <br> You're not fooling anyone! That photo doesn't say-- I'm must be desirable because these two women whose faces have been obliterated with Photoshop were kissing me. These types of photos say-- I'm too lazy, ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 91 Votes ,7.00 Score
ladynred101661 53 F
1  Article
Re: To All of you "A Little Extra Padding" Girls   11/11/2003

I will agree with you, quite a few people on here lie about what they look like. But I have to add, it's not strictly held to the women. Men do it too....although, you being a man. you probably wouldn't know that. But the women here know what I mean. <br> Last year, a man responded to my ad. We started chatting and I asked him several times for a picture, as I had one on ...


2 Comments, 536 Views, 95 Votes ,9.48 Score
To all of you "A little extra padding" girls... AND the flip side   11/11/2003

I read the previous "To all of you A little extra padding girls..." with great interest. I consider myself to be a full figured woman....size 16 or 18 slacks, but larger tops because I sport 40DDDs. I initially listed my body type as "ample". When I exchanged emails with others on this site, I was extremely honest about my appearance and used a recent photo. Every single guy I met made ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 6 Votes ,5.64 Score
white women riding black cocks   11/11/2003

why is it that a white swingingcple that lets black guys join them gets treated like they have the plauge by alot of other white cples???? we have been told some very crude things by some persons on a site which you cna be certified by the people you have played with. we had to remove a cple of our certifications we recieived becuase of the negative response fromother cples


9 Comments, 486 Views, 13 Votes ,5.16 Score
I want more anal   11/11/2003

I have alway's liked anal with women, When I was married that's all my wife wanted, my new girlfriend let me try it a couple of times and she said she liked it. My problem is she says it hurts at first is there anyway I can make it more comfortable for her until she gets to the enjoyment part of it?


0 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
Women and Relationships   11/11/2003

Why is it that women don't want to do anything for their men anymore? Our mothers, grandmothers, and great-grandmothers did everything for their men and never questioned it. Men go out and work hard, and we need a loving, nurturing woman to come home to. Women today just expect everything to be handed to them, and don't want to give anything in return. I guess they're just products of the ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
tonysoza 44 M
2  Articles
Letting her suck u   11/11/2003

Well I feel if your spouse dosent want to suck u or is unprepared to do so. Why dont u start by giving her oral. Give her orgasms through your oral. then slowly talk to her how much u like her to do the same. May be show her some movies on it and let her feel comfortable about it first, so she dosent feel that she is the first one to do the same. I think once she understands it she will ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 0 Votes
HOW DO I GET HER TO DO ANAL?   11/10/2003

My steady girl just doesnt enjoy a large cock in her ass and i feel that everytime i have sex i like to finish with some hardcore ANAL! this is why i have found myself using this site. there are plenty of gorgeous woman on here with the kinda sex drive and kinkyness i just adore.


0 Comments, 28 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
In Regard to the "why I don't have sex with my husband" article...   11/10/2003

Your article only left me with 1 question....what the hell are you doing staying married to him? It is obvious you think he is a slob along with many other unfavorable qualities and also obvious you are miserable..so why not leave and be happy? sheesh you must be getting something from staying...so shut up and stay or move on and be happy...life is to short to spend moaning and complaining ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 0 Votes
Presentation counts--be literate!   11/10/2003

I'd like to offer my opinion on the thing that bothers me most: poor spelling and grammar. There are an awful lot of ads on this site with no capital letters, terrible spelling, and non-existant grammar. One example that really annoys me is all the ads that use "u" instead of "you" and "r" instead of "are". There is even another advice article on this same topic which contains the same ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
Have you find a partner thru Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat?   11/10/2003

Does anybody ever found a sex partner using Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat? I agree with the opinions that subscribers are either not real or they are using this site as opportunity to advertise their own paid websites and services.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
AngelEyesInMo 47 F
11  Articles
SixTips To Help Men Receive More Oral   11/10/2003

This is for the endless number of men who complain that either their partner won't perform oral sex on them or that they don't do it enough. TIP #1 Shave or at least neatly trim your member...it's not pleasant picking hairs from one's tongue and besides hair has tendency to hold odors. TIP #2 Try repositioning during sex...the good old 69 position invariably leaves your partner in an ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
tonysoza 44 M
2  Articles
Double dating   11/9/2003

I am a married guy, working away from home, have , Initially when i married i used to love to good horny time in bed with my wife; but then she would not be so interested. I like oral and she is the straight type. Hence i started soucingsatisfaction elsewhere. Now I Have found a good woman who is elder to me, just one yrs elder. She give me good time and wants me to be with her. she knows I ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 0 Votes
points for a standard   11/9/2003

when i respond to articles or questions i don't recive points for it. I don't think i've gone over the max in all categories. Is there a way to see what i have done?


0 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Advice on threesomes   11/9/2003

If you were to have a threesome how would it go. Let's say it's two women and a man. Are there certain positions you should try to make it more enjoyable. I know that if you've never had a 3some you really don't care what positions you are in, you just want to jump right in. For those experienced with 3somes what do you enjoy doing during all the activity.


0 Comments, 23 Views, 0 Votes
RE: Hot Girls!!!   11/9/2003

Hey MR. Theyre are alot of HOT girls that arent the porn queens! So thanks for the compliments to us "real" hot girls too bad we cant see your ID so we know to shitcan YOUR notes!


0 Comments, 10 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Can I spend the rest of my life with this person   11/8/2003

I've known my fiance for 3 and 1/2 years now, and we moved in together last year. Over the past few months I've been questioning whether or not I can marry her or not. For one since we've moved in together I've noticed she's a complete slob and uterly lazy, here I work two jobs clean our place and I come back to it a mess. Two she is my first real passionate intimate relationship, and I ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 60 Votes ,7.17 Score
do or would women like bi guys   11/8/2003

I'm presently only a bi curious guy. It usually only comes to the surface when I'm horny and not always then. I'm straight and have no interest in men romantically. I am not a person that for cheating but so long as the other knows and APPROVES I don't think of it as cheating. I am presently single and not dating and the fantasy part of me would love to have some experiences that an ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 85 Votes ,7.36 Score
Making a woman squirt   11/8/2003

I have always heard that if you can make a woman squirt during her orgasm, it intensifies her orgasm greatly.....this is also somewhat of a turn on! Can anyone advise me how to make this happen?! Thank you in advance!


0 Comments, 37 Views, 125 Votes ,7.51 Score
rm_deuce63 47 M
1  Article
RE: This thing I call my Life.....   11/6/2003

It is excellent advice to go see a therapist... if you work with a good one, you won't be sorry you went! <br> An observation; you are falling for guys who it could never work out with, right? Do you think part of the reason is a fear of a relationship succeeding? <br> I'll explain; say you are involved with somebody for quite some time, and you have a very close ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 33 Votes ,8.01 Score
When emotions get in the way of a casual relationship   11/5/2003

A close male friends girlfriend was overseas for almost a year when we had a few too many drinks one night & ended up havin the best sex I'd had in my entire life. We agreed it was just a one-off thing & wouldnt happen again. Yet it did, many times. We started spending all our free time together like a couple. I felt so guilty about betraying his girlfriend but I knew she was sleeping with ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 17 Votes ,4.26 Score
Marriage   11/5/2003

Don't get me wrong, marriage is great...the constant sex, no nagging....you get the jist! But for all of you out there thinking about marriage, remember these two things: 1)sex is the most important thing in the relationship - don't let anyone tell you differently. What's the best way to get ovr a fight, sex. What's the best way not tohave a fight, sex. So remember, the more sex you ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 22 Votes ,5.89 Score
guru   11/4/2003

He who dares wins. A faint heart never won a fair lady. BUT ONLY A FOOL PISSES IN THE WIND.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 2 Votes
Paying for sex, is it wrong?   11/4/2003

Having reached the age of 42 without having sex (BOY HAVE I LEFT IT LATE!!!) and being to shy and tongue tied to be successful at dating, I descided to try a 'massage' parlour for sex. I searched the NET for a suitable local establishment and found reviews of the girls and premises. I have now visited them a few times and have no qualms about continuing to use their services, in fact I ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
rm_rookies03 39 C
2  Articles
messy? answer   11/4/2003

I wouldn't say I am an expert on anal sex, but we have tried it a couple of times, so I do know the answers to your questions. Anatomically, when your penis enters the chute, you are in the rectum. The rectum is normally empty and stays (relatively) clean. Good hygene is helpful. An enema can clean up the rest, and some people find them erotic. Note, that you need to use lots of lube ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Re: Deployed NUTS?   11/3/2003

Hopefully you have another bank account or all of your hard earned money is going to be gone. And hopefully you did not give her a general power of attorney. That would mean you could be the proud owner of whatever she decides to buy in your name. If you do not have a seperate banking account (and I mean in another city) then start an allotment for Savings Bonds now. Buy as many as you can ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
rm_eric71438 43 M
12  Articles
why cant i meet anyone on here   11/3/2003

i have talked with many amazing women on here and get along very well with all of them, i believe i am an attractive guy and they all told me so yet they never want to meet and i dont mean for sex only i am the type that likes to meet over a beer or a cup of coffee and get the know a personality face to face so i can look in eyes and feel a comfert... what is going on??


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
First time Anal.   11/3/2003

I wanted to have anal for the first time. How do I go about getting prepared for it . Im really scared that it will hurt alot.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 1 Votes
nu2cpls 56,1966 C
2  Articles
How to respond?   11/2/2003

Once you've been contacted by an individual or a couple, what do you do next? I acknowledged receiving their e-mails, but what do you say...."I like you dick"??? I'm at a loss for words, what to ask, whats appropriate, what's the usual procedure??? Any ideas?? Thanks


0 Comments, 20 Views, 45 Votes ,6.74 Score
Advice on Butt Sex   11/2/2003

Anyone ever done it. How do you first get to do it with your partner. I always get the response. It hurts or it doesn't feel right. How do you work your way into that spot.


0 Comments, 46 Views, 83 Votes ,4.05 Score
rm_blusky4u2 63 M
1  Article
The Art of Clit Licking "Upside Down"   11/2/2003

This is a very interesting topic that I think most men dont know enough of due to reasons unknown? Is it one's own insecurities? Is it the lack of desire to care enough about ones partner? Lack of knowledge? Just not understanding a woman in general? These are just a few of the "many" excuses that a man can throw at a woman when it comes to the vagina and the clitoris as well as ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Which one should i pick?   11/2/2003

Heres my situation. I'm with a girl and have been for a year and a half. But i'm cheating on her with an ex. I'm completely in love with my g/f but the sex isnt there. My ex, i dont really like, but shes the best lay in the world. Im young (19) and would like to have alot of fun, but i do want my g/f in my life...Anyone have any suggestions??


0 Comments, 7 Views, 0 Votes
is my penis too small   10/31/2003

my penis only sticks out one and a half inches and only 4'' when it's hard do women like a short one like this


0 Comments, 48 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Galiem 44 C
3  Articles
Female Orgasms - A Simple Guide   10/30/2003

Okay, so you want to satisfy your partner, and you're slightly insecure with your ability to do so. Well, if you weren't, or didn't think you had more to learn, you wouldn't be reading this. It's okay. Don't be embarassed, or feel belittled. The female body is exceedingly complex, and their sexual nuances are proportionally complex. Additionally, tastes and interests vary from person ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
RE: advice   10/30/2003

For one thing there are several reasons why people respond to the questions and articles here at Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat. One is to earn points so that they can enjoy a few perks another is to be genuinely helpful and add insight to people who ASK for it!! Unlike YOU, however, they dont pass judgement on others and or think that they are somehow "superior" !


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RE:Try anal   10/29/2003

to get stated try having a few drinks to relax. have your man first stat by licking and working up to a finger once your feel good with that then try letting the head of his penis push a little ways in and remember to go slow until you can take it all the way in


0 Comments, 3 Views, 166 Votes ,7.72 Score
advice   10/29/2003

I think people who give advice really need advice themselves.People who give advice are hiding the fact that inside them they are the ones who need advice from someone else.So people that give advice here is some advice for you.....stop giving advice and take some your self.


2 Comments, 11 Views, 52 Votes
Re: I would like to try anal   10/28/2003

First of all use lots of lube. Baby oil is actually the best and smells good to most people. When the head of the cock first pops into your ass, there can be a tremendous amount of initial pain. Have your partner hold still for a moment and just wait til it subsides. Once the pain passes your in for a very pleasurable experience and can take large cocks and a good hard pounding.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Nebuchidnezzar 56 M
1  Article
Re: sucking clit the only way   10/28/2003

There is no such thing as an "only way", every woman likes it differently. I've been with a woman who would wince in pain every time I sucked on it and could only tolerate light strokes, yet still came. With my ex-wife of 16 years, there towards the end, I was scraping my teeth across it and actually nibbling at points. The clit's tolerance of stimulation can become just as apathetic as ...


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I would like to try anal.   10/27/2003

Can I get any advice? How do you prepare for it and how can you make it as so its smooth and painless?


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RE: Anal Sex   10/27/2003

Is it best to use a lube you asked. <br> Oh heck yes, believe me you wouldn't want to try it without. You'll need a vaginal lube, and the more you use the better. It can hurt enough going in with the lube if she's never done it before. <br> She needs to relax completely before you enter her and you need to go in a small amount at a time. Maybe pull back a little ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 138 Votes ,9.72 Score
NeEd HeLp WiTh My GiRl   10/27/2003

Hey I usually don't write articles but here goes. I need sum help. see my girl doesn't seem to want to have sex as much as she used to she say's its not me and she doesn't really seem to want to talk about it. I think she might be sleeping around on me what do you think. Should i break up with her for not giving me sex or how do i find out if she is sleeping around I need HELP PLEASE


0 Comments, 5 Views, 38 Votes ,4.90 Score
Nebuchidnezzar 56 M
1  Article
Re: ~Giving my guy oral~   10/26/2003

Speaking as a gentleman who loves giving oral and rarely orgasms when being given oral, I think I can provide you some insight into this, as well as tell you what the women who have successfully pushed me over the edge did. <br> For me, I have a very hard time concentrating/relaxing on the attention, when I don't have anything else to do. When I go to a strip club and watch a ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 73 Votes ,8.97 Score
Watching   10/26/2003

I would love to watch you. That's why cams were invented. Go to the chat room and invite all the ladies to watch. <br> I also like to watch guys I know that way I know what they like how fast, slow, hard, soft to touch them. <br> It's great fun....the show must go on.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 25 Votes ,3.68 Score
babybaby20 39 F
1  Article
please   10/26/2003

if you don't trust someone, don't marry them but you can be with whom ever forever


0 Comments, 2 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
lovetolicku274 49 F
1  Article
DON'T BE AFFRAID OF ANAL   10/26/2003

TOVTHOSE WHO ARE AFFRAID OF ANAL SEX TAKE MY ADVICE DON'T BE.THE FIRST TIME IT IS A LITTLE BIT UNCOFORTABLE BUT IF YOU USE LOTS OF LUBE AND IF YOUR TAKES HIM TIME SLOWLY TO GET IT IN, THE KEY IS TO GET POUNDED RAPIDLY.YOU WON'T BE SORRY, THE ORGASM YOU'LL GET IS THE MOST INTENSE YOU'LL EVER FEEL.I WAS ONCE AFFRAID TO DO IT BUT I HAVE NO REGRETS THAT I DID.


0 Comments, 15 Views, 13 Votes ,6.33 Score
KANman315 47 C
0  Articles
RE:gay fantasies   10/25/2003

I have been married for 13 years. I had 2 homosexual encounters while I was growing up the curious boys type, but I never considered my self as gay. Like I said before I’m happily married with three and I have just recently started having gay fantasies, and I had an intimate talk with my wife about this. We agreed to allow me to do some experimenting with my fantasies as long as we ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 30 Votes ,4.12 Score
eaglemaster01 41 M
11  Articles
Drinking horror stories.   10/25/2003

I am sure almost everyone that has been drunk in their lives has done this at least once. You know when you get really drunk and you take that person home with you that you thought was really hot and you have your own private party in your bedroom. Then comes the next morning when you wake up and realize that the hot person that you brought home with you turned out to be a real face. the ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 25 Votes ,5.01 Score
Big Question on First Date........   10/25/2003

When you have decided to meet someone for the first time, make sure you ask whether or not this person has a pet and whether the pet will be a part of the date. <br> I was horrified on my first date, when tee man showed up with his large female dog. To begin I was bitten by my own and eversince had some fear for large dogs. For most of the time I was talking but was more ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 23 Votes ,6.51 Score
eaglemaster01 41 M
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If he/she beats you   10/25/2003

If you are a vitcim of abuse and have contacted the authorities and they really havent done anything about it then why not abuse them back and stick up for yourself. Make them suffer jsut like you suffered.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 30 Votes ,5.79 Score
rm_jkefton 51 M
2  Articles
RE: This web site is amazing   10/24/2003

The original posting about 'is anybody for real on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat' and 'did the creators of the web site post the profiles themselves' - My experience has been great - lots of real people willing to meet in the flesh - have had many encounters in the Halifax area - like anything, there is good and bad - you've only seen the bad - keep hunting!!! <br> <br> J


0 Comments, 5 Views, 24 Votes ,6.42 Score
~Giving my guy oral ~   10/24/2003

Whenever my guy and I are together things tend to get very hot and heavy . We kiss , touch , feel each others bodies . ( God , he's build soooo nice ) Before I know it his cock is rock hard ! I slowly go down on him , pull down his boxers and release his throbbing member . I begin to suck , lick and kiss his cock . He loves this ! The only problem is he can't cum by me giving him oral ... ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 30 Votes ,5.49 Score
rm_mic462 43 M
1  Article
RE: Be careful who you reply to!   10/23/2003

I to have had emails like that so I thought I'd follow it to see her picture she said she had long dark hair but when I eventually seen the picture the woman in the picture had short blonde hair so people beware of these emails, It cost me about £7 to see "her picture"


0 Comments, 2 Views, 84 Votes ,8.87 Score
defining deep throat?????   10/23/2003

I think that to suck a dick is one thing but to make it feel reall good is another! My man likes it's when I take it down my throat and then he cums and I swallow no problem lady's try It!!!! Oh! my bad gents to!! It really turns me on and makes me horny as hell! Then he proceeds to eat me out!!!!!(MMMMMM!!!!MMMM!GooooooooD!!!!!!!!


0 Comments, 21 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
Is he Bi too?   10/22/2003

I have a friend and we seem to be pretty close...the only problem is I am a man and bi! I have no idea how to approach him on this matter. Sould I try to make a move to let him know or should I try to bring it up in conversation? I think he is hot for me too but I am not sure if we can come out of our shells...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 35 Votes ,8.17 Score
This guy is a dumbass   10/21/2003

Who the fu*K would eat someone out for over ten hours straight?? I would think this would make a girl very sore, and frankly, quite bored. Eating out a girl is great, but there are other things to do to make her feel complete. Oral sex is just part of it. There are many other treats in store for a woman that will be my partner. Get a grip dude!!


0 Comments, 34 Views, 107 Votes ,8.82 Score
rm_want2trybi3 66 C
3  Articles
Taking Pics...   10/21/2003

Please consider this: <br> Before you decide to upload a photo, do you look at it? I have seen so many pictures sent to us, that I really wonder if some of you do. When I see a picture with a messy background, it is a real turn off. I think that this guy is a slob and doesn't take pride in how he presents himself. Before you take another picture, look around and ask yourself... ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 132 Votes ,8.57 Score
teasinpleasin2 55 M
4  Articles
Re: Author of LEARN TO SPELL 101   10/20/2003

Ok, let's check the dictionary! <br> "Stay" (or "stayed" in past tense) is defined as "to remain or cause to remain in one place or location." <br> "Staid" is defined as "restrained and somber, sedate." <br> Since you are adamantly insisting you are correct perhaps most of us "stayed" in school while you "staid" in school? If this is the case, may I ask ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 24 Votes ,5.74 Score
rm_jayR63 66 F
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the great (spelling) debate   10/20/2003

Yes, a word with the same pronounciation CAN be spelled two different ways. However the meaning of the word is dependent upon the spelling. When the writer used the word "staid", I'm sure they did not intend the meaning that follows: " Characterized by sedate dignity and often a strait-laced sense of propriety" Particularly considering the ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 16 Votes ,2.39 Score
Randy1_4fun 65 M
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Re: "don't trust"   10/19/2003

Your wife is the one that commited herself to you in her vows... Not your friend! He did what most men would do with a woman, if he's attracted to her, that makes herself available to him. I support your forgiving her because she was honest and told you about it. You should talk to her, openly and honestly, about her feelings, desires and needs. If you really love her, you should do ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 27 Votes ,6.29 Score
Randy1_4fun 65 M
6  Articles
Re: Learn to spell - 101   10/19/2003

You're right! Some should have stayed in school longer, paid more attention while they were there or at least learn to use a dictionary--- And you're one of them! <br> Note the spelling of "Stayed", above... It's not "staid" as YOU spelled it. <br> You should give folks a break. I suspect that the article that you're refering to was written by someone who's first ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 20 Votes ,4.53 Score
Randy1_4fun 65 M
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Re: Cheating or not?   10/19/2003

It's clear to me that, in the case you site, it is cheating, simply because of the deceitful/covert actions being used to keep it hidden... Even if it's really innocent.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 18 Votes ,6.26 Score
Randy1_4fun 65 M
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Re: "I'm I Lesbian!" & "Am I Gay?"   10/19/2003

It sounds to me that both of you are bisexual. While you both have a clear preferance for relationships with the opposite sex, you also find same sex fantasies or encounters exciting, intriguing or enjoyable.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 18 Votes ,2.99 Score
teasinpleasin2 55 M
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Reply to Proper Grammar=101   10/19/2003

The posting begins, "I have just finished TRYING to read an article, it barely made sence." Sence?! What does that mean?! Quit complaining about grammar and spelling and take some time to practice what you preach.


0 Comments, 28 Views, 18 Votes ,6.13 Score
rm_DrFunPress 53 M
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Sex Therapist Secrets   10/19/2003

Sex therapist are not as bright as you think they are. They don't posses all the answer to having the most enjoyable sex ever. How ever they may be able to point you in the right direction. Just like any other medical field; it's a practice and their advice may or may not work. Everything is trial and error based on their or someone elses past sexual expeiences. Save your money. Talk to ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 12 Votes ,0.33 Score
datmlvr 66 M
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re: what is up with my profile responses   10/19/2003

Man this is a hard one to answer but I think honesty ends up conquering. I think people are interested in what they're interested in. For example I'm in my very early 50's and have been balding since I was 30. I'm used to it and have been told I'm handsome by lots of women who meet me in person. My pictures are not of the best quality and really should be updated but the fact is that a lot ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 21 Votes ,4.98 Score
teasinpleasin2 55 M
4  Articles
Always reply   10/18/2003

Maybe you’re horny and just want a quickie or perhaps you would like some casual conversation over dinner to start off a sincere and long-lasting relationship. Regardless of your intentions, you spend a couple of hours, maybe even days or weeks, reading numerous profiles. You’ve even looked at those without photos followed by some from far away locations. Chances are ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 55 Votes ,9.10 Score
rm_hanknow 44 M
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Reply to "I'm I a lesbian?"- Am I gay?   10/18/2003

I am the exact same way you say you are, except I'm a guy! I love women, everything about them- well, almost everything... but sexually, physically, emotionally I am attracted to the ladies. HOWEVER, every now and then I'll find myself fantasizing about a dick. Naturally the dick is attatched to someone, but the person doesnt matter, its just having the erect penis there that turns me ...


1 Comments, 54 Views, 19 Votes ,5.89 Score
curious   10/18/2003

well i hope someone has some advice for me. i'm 30 blk female. i've been really wanting to explore sexually. like try some kinky things, but i'm very shy and i have a really hard time opening up and expressing what i want to whomever may b my partner at the time. i mean freaky things are a big turn on for me, but in the back of my mind i'm always worried about what the other person will ...


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RE- not a sex swinger site.   10/18/2003

I initiallly joined Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat to find no strings sex partners. But out of the blue and very unexpectedly, I found more and now am in a commited relationship with someone I met on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat. So anything can happen!


0 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_Kitkat_30253 56 F
2  Articles
Re: Want to have a threesome with another woman and wife and I think my wife is curious   10/17/2003

First, you are starting with the wrong mindset. If you are not sure that your wife is curious, and only "think" she is, then you will not get her to participate. Begin by addressing the issue with your wife, openly and honestly. Allow her to express to you her desires for a 3some with another female. You may then express your desires also. This is YOUR wife, right? <br> ...


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want to have a threesome with another woman and wife and i think my wife is curious   10/16/2003

how do i go about getting here to do this, how should i approuch it. how do i get her to agree and pic the right person


0 Comments, 19 Views, 37 Votes ,6.11 Score
this is not just a sex-swinging site   10/15/2003

To Whom it may hit a nerve, you are limiting this site to just sex, and swinging, I personally have met many MEN, who wish only a managomous relationship, the only reason they allowed your post!!! was for ppl. like me to defend this very narrow minded opinion!! maybe u found what u r looking for, but I have too, and not "limited" myself nor compromised my venture!!!*k*


0 Comments, 1 Views, 57 Votes ,2.14 Score
rm_mastro0072 58 M
2  Articles
what to do?   10/15/2003

My buddy and his wife are swingers. He wants me to do his wife and shes really pretty. The catch is he wants to watch and take pics and I'm not sure if i'm comfortable with that. What should I do.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 16 Votes ,6.07 Score
BiLLaBonGSurF 36 M
1  Article
Ex-Girlfriend   10/15/2003

IF a girlfriend of 8 months was to cheat on you, this being ur first semi-serious relationship is it alright to forgive her and go on as it didn't happen or is this just postponing the future?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 16 Votes ,5.19 Score
redT4fun 57,1951 C
3  Articles
Bisex play   10/14/2003

well hun..maybe you shouldnt play with couples then..whats the point?...especially since she aint getting what she wants from the experiance..geez..


0 Comments, 27 Views, 25 Votes ,5.01 Score
redT4fun 57,1951 C
3  Articles
cumming every day reply   10/14/2003

ummm..hello...its probably the best "sexersize" in the world!...its a great cario workout and you get to stretch those creaky bones!....and if your not an avid workout person as I am not...then by all means...work it girl!!!


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In response to the young man that likes older women   10/14/2003

Being 33 years old I have to tell you that I absolutely love younger men. They have a way of making you feel "19" again....lol. Don't be afraid to approach an older woman...to your surprise you may find yourself having the best experience of your life. The older woman, more sexually experienced and mature...you, the younger man, more stamina and full of willingness to explore all sexual ...


0 Comments, 63 Views, 31 Votes ,6.98 Score
Re: Why does everyone changes somethiing???   10/14/2003

I agree with the person who wrote the article..First of all why in the hell do you think we go through puberty in the first place...To separate the little girls from the women and the little boys from the men.. If we are suppose to stay bald then hair would not grow there... I am a woman and I am not trying to look like some LITTLE FUCKING GIRL ANYMORE... There is nothing wrong with a ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 20 Votes ,1.21 Score
rm_pereira6x 56 C
1  Article
try water-filled condoms!   10/13/2003

I like the feeling of something big in me streching and the same like extends to normal sex. However not all guys are hung like horses...But it can FEEL to me like they are, and here's how! <br> - Insert a string of plastic pleasure balls into the vagina, then put his penis in. Now you have something BIG in your vagina, and the feeling is great to me at least, I really cannot ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 102 Votes ,7.29 Score
G. Spot   10/13/2003

Of all the sex that I have had I have never had an orgasm from just penetration. I have to have clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. How can my man find my G-spot so I can orgasm without clitoral stimulation? PLEASE HELP!!!


0 Comments, 3 Views, 41 Votes ,7.47 Score
Russ25264 60 M
1  Article
Male exploitation   10/12/2003

I don’t know how many of you have come across this but here’s a warning for any new members out there. I have made contact with many women through email, some are genuine and some are of interest. It becomes apparent within a few emails whether you share any kind of interest or are likely to hit it off. <br> But then there is the promised land, an email from a woman ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
Is Bald Sexy?   10/11/2003

A question for the ladies. I am a 32 year old male who is losing his hair on top. I have been told that I should shave my head because women are more attracted to bald men than men with a bald spot or the george Costanza horseshoe pattern. Is this true? What should I do? I know women say that personality is more important to them than looks and I do have a good personality, sense of ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
rm_HungryP 65 M
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Re: Should I not swing alone now that we are separated?   10/10/2003

You have obviously had a rough time lately. Your husband must have some real problems to throw away the lifestyle you describe. I think you should get out & enjoy yourself, because it would do you good & does no-one else any harm. You will probably find that the people you know through swinging will be very supportive, but if some are not, then find some new friends. Live life to the full & ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 50 Votes ,7.92 Score
sexyguy1953 63 M
1  Article
Unable to attract   10/9/2003

Hi, I'm get lonely and get fed up at times, (not depressed or anything like that), mainly because of living on my own and not having a partner and some to share the good times as well as the bad.When i go out with freinds i've never been able to attract the opposite sex even though i'm not stuck for conversation and i can make people laugh.At times i feel i must be ugly or something but i ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 53 Votes ,7.82 Score
More About Spelling & Grammer   10/9/2003

"""While I agree that spelling is important and proper grammar is an indication of a person’s education I wouldn't say it is the absolute measure of a person’s intelligence.""" (taken from below) My two cents: Well, all of this sounds nice and most people who are poor spellers would like to take a magic pill and make it all better but the facts are this.....like it or not. ...


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Re Anal: Too much,Too soon,Too hurt..   10/7/2003

Well as i see it you and your boyfriend wants to enjoy your rear end without hurting your passage.There are a lot of advices on lubricants for anal sex.Some says to relax yourself and push slowly in.Others says to use alot of lubricants[avairable at sex stores]to ease entry.The best thing is go slow and take your time on the best way to perform.Remember your Ass is for exit only and it is ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 52 Votes ,8.16 Score
Timewasting? - Lifewasting!   10/3/2003

We joined Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat recently, and couldn't believe the response. After weedling out the obvious timewasters we arranged to meet up with another couple who seemed very genuine. They suggested a time and a place and we were quite happy with this. To cut a long story short they never turned up! Ok, they were timewasters and we should have remembered the number one lesson in life, life is full of ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 99 Votes ,8.66 Score
Sex is good for you   10/3/2003

Did you know that you can tell from the skin whether a person is sexually active or not? <br> 1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when woman make love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen, which make hair shiny and skin smooth. <br> 2. Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis, skin rashes and blemishes. The ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 151 Votes ,8.91 Score
try and try again   10/2/2003

this site is great i have been a member for about three months and in my time hear i found that the more photos and the more words you have in your profile, the better the responces. you have to profect you profile before you get the responces from the people you like, i tryed for a month emailing this one girl before she said anything to me and then when we meet, all i can say is OH MY GOD ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 155 Votes ,6.52 Score
Here's a clue - Learn to read the profile   9/29/2003

I would suggest that someone that is wanting to meet another person on here first read their profile. Pay attention to what they write. They didn't put that information for no reason. Learn to respect that person enough to try to adapt to the qualifications inside the profile. Remember, some people are not paying members and if they answer you to tell you "no thanks", they are wasting ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 87 Votes ,9.60 Score
SexySWCouple 69 C
1  Article
Anal Sex primer...should you or shouldn't you?   9/27/2003

For those of you who are considering having Anal sex, and just aren't sure of yourselves yet, you probably aren't ready. And if your partner isn't as experienced as he or she should be when introducing someone new to anal sex, it could turn out to be painful, or worse, disasterous. <br> So here is a thought..if you have been curious about anal sex for a while, or have a partner ...


0 Comments, 129 Views, 15 Votes ,6.35 Score
GoddessSekhmet 43 C
3  Articles
A little on MFF threesomes   9/27/2003

Well, me being a bi female makes this easy for me. Since the majority of men want 3somes. My boyfriend has thought the idea is cool for sometime, but he really wants to feel like he is part of it and not just a third wheel. Unfortunately we have not done anything as of yet, and I am afraid when we do he won't like it becuase he will feel left out. As women we have an advantage we can ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 12 Votes ,6.16 Score
which way do i go???   9/25/2003

to make a long story short...i recently ended a relationship of 8 yrs with the man i thought i would spend the rest of my life with. i was aware that he had and that didn't bother me at all. the thing that did bother me was the "EX". she made it very difficult for my ex to spend time with his . in order for him to see them she needed to be around. there was no issue of him abducting ...


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NickKiwi 59 M
3  Articles
Thoughts on Main Street   9/25/2003

Thoughts on Main Street, a poem by NickKiwi <br> You said we would meet, in fact, you said that you would call me on Monday. You said we would meet on Main Street, and you would call me so we could decide on the time. You told me you had long read hair and that you would be there with your mom, she was blond. I had thought that maybe you were leading me on, as you had promised to ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
First timer STRAIGHT single man   9/24/2003

Just curious to know from other single STRAIGHT guys possibly in the Greater Cincinnati area, is there realy any action out there? I'm new at this and I think my profile is pretty decent, has pictures, a facial and others more straight to the point, but I'm still drawing blanks. Check out my profile (strictly for infor. purposes for the guys)and maybe you could tell me where I'm going ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Em_Blue 47 M
2  Articles
Explaining NoMo to the uninitiated and L7   9/23/2003

NoMo=NonMonogamy <br> One of my co-werkers just left, and she was trippin' over the notion of bisexuality. She insists that she would not know 'how to compete' with a man for another man's affection and intimacy. I didn't have the heart to explain omnisexuality and the importance of having genderfluid lovers. <br> Her big question was really why one would give up ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_MiosotisX 67 F
8  Articles
Re: Spelling and Grammar   9/20/2003

I agree fully that the spelling of a lot of people around here is very... very poor, so poor that being a foreigner I would be ashamed if I wrote that way in one of the several foreign languages which I speak! Just... they are writing in their own language and as someone here pointed out they are often (or at least they say...) highly educated! Someone said that as he is not applying for a ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 215 Votes ,7.10 Score
rm_MiosotisX 67 F
8  Articles
Re: The sex game, how is it done again?   9/20/2003

You are still in college so you are very young and some of the things you say make sense exactly because of your age although you would be surprised how many immature older men walk around in this world... To start with you shouldn't listen to whatever other people tell you, probably men who know as little about women as yourself. Hot girls... do you only think of women as sex objects? ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 167 Votes ,7.46 Score
GAvalentine 77 F
1  Article
Easy formula for attracting women on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat   9/19/2003

My experience on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat has been wonderful and I receive messages from men every day. I often receive messages from men who have obviously been disappointed in their experience with Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat. These men are asking me to give them a chance. <br> I reply to every message I receive with the exception of those that are really crude and offensive. With the amount of mail I receive, I can ...


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rm_thehydra 40 M
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The sex game, how is it done again?   9/13/2003

Confidence is the key to getting hot girls. And yes I was otld they like people to make them laugh, and be fun to talk to, and to give them security. And people say YOU need to go up to them, they wont come to you. Girls are attracted to what they cant have, therefor act like you arent interested. Now this all makes sense, but they kind of contradict themselves. Thats where i am CONFUSED. ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 85 Votes ,5.72 Score
swttemptation 36 F
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He won't take no for an answer   8/27/2003

I never thought about posting something on here, but I don't know what else to do... There's this guy who I've fooled around with, several times, over the course of 3 years... we hardly know each other, but one night couple years ago, we fooled around... I won't see him for months, and then he'll reappear, we'll fool around... won't see each other for awhile, etc... we both were single and ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 32 Votes ,6.52 Score
silkroses 71 F
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Re: Need Quick Advice   8/19/2003

My advice to you my friend is simple. PICK ONE! How fair are you being to your girlfriend, her sister and her friend by being interested in and having sex with all three of them. If you want to play the field, then you shouldn't have a committed relationship. If you want a committed relationship, then you shouldn't be playing the field. You're going to hurt a lot of sweet women and you ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 20 Votes ,3.25 Score
sazlou 35 F
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RE: am i spinless...   8/13/2003

First things first, if you want to get out-get out! DONT stay in a relationship that you don't want to be in. It's tough to break up with anyone, but it's tougher to start looking elswhere whilst still attatched. Any decent woman would run a mile if they knew the situation! On the day you split with your girlfriend, arrange a night out with the lads. All you need to do is pick your ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 45 Votes ,6.81 Score
RE: PLEASE HELP ME   8/7/2003

That's very simple. Here is my advice: tell him you'll go with him, or that you'll come if he can't come back. Most likely, he won't agree. Then definitely get over him, he is not worse it. But if he does agree, then he is dating another girl to stay with YOU. That would be a heart-breaking situation, wouldn't it? You'd have to decide what to do. By the way, why can't you go with him? ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 29 Votes ,6.05 Score
need mans point of view (response)   8/1/2003

Hi....I am a 42 year old man and I would like to respond to your situation. The fact of the matter is, those men that you date are probably just looking to get laid. I hope you don't get offended, but it is what it is. At 45 yrs old, you really don't have alot to offer a man who is 30 / early 30's except a piece of ass. Are you ok with having these sexual relationships? Or you ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 40 Votes ,3.32 Score
sparkiecouple 50 C
1  Article
how do I gently get her involved in aThree some   7/31/2003

While I was away for sometime...My wife was hanging around with her friend (lesbian). I found out that one night while drinking at home they played cards. Cards turned into strip poker and later into them being intimate. My wife thought I would be mad but I wasn't. I'll be honest here ...at first I wasn't too excited but after thinking about it I thought it was kinda cool. I mean she could ...


1 Comments, 61 Views, 31 Votes ,5.83 Score
rm_sab0900 46 M
2  Articles
Re: PLEASE HELP ME   7/30/2003

If you cannot bear the thought of him being with this other girl then leave him. Find some one that doesn't have to do that. When you find someone new you will get over him. Maybe it was not ment to be, if it were than this visa problem would not exist.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 36 Votes ,5.22 Score
Guys, be honest and up front with your dates!   7/29/2003

I've had some success with this site, and let me tell you- there are some women out there who you should stay away from if you are just looking for sex. I've met several women with the intention of having a fun evening ending in hot sex or maybe becoming a regular booty call. Well, on at least one occation, I wasn't as clear as I should have been. I learned to make sure she knows your ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 90 Votes ,9.34 Score
the greatest thrill and the sexiest part of yer story is that u donno who the father is,, let it be so sexy   7/19/2003

oh girlie, that sure was a great story. Know what u missed, the threesome, u should have tried it, the sexiest game in vogue. Never mind next time when u hit with two guys, give it a try, one bed, one girl and two guys, makin love simultaneously. wowie


0 Comments, 9 Views, 66 Votes ,1.26 Score
direption69 54 F
20  Articles
from salty to sweet   7/18/2003

THANK YOU!!!! <br> I truly enjoy giving head and ask my partner to PLEASE change his diet. It matters SO MUCH!!! In kind, I adjust mine. Some people have NO IDEA what they taste like. If you knew, you'd be more sensitive to your partners -- and THAT is alway erotic. <br> If we eat more fruit and veggies, EVERYBODY would just love oral sex!!! <br> What a ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 105 Votes ,7.50 Score
RE: HOW TO GIVE GOOD HEAD   7/14/2003

You gave a very good article and I'm happy that you took teh time to write an article like that which pleases everyone involved. Something in your article caught though caught my attention and I hope you'll have the same patience and generosity to reply. You said something about a guy tryign to pleasure you and then afterwards, you'd think to yourself 'I could have doen that to yourself'. ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 108 Votes ,6.89 Score
luv2deepthroatu 45 F
2  Articles
BBW i love the feel of a bigger woman   7/14/2003

fucking a thin woman is just no fun for me i don't like being hit by skinny women bones protruding from there pelvic areas i prefer the nice feel of some flesh down there it make for more bounce and fun when you are fucking hard and fast, so go ahead ladies don't be afraid to say you are not a skinny minny there are plenty of men out there who love you and would love to make it with ...


1 Comments, 161 Views, 163 Votes ,8.86 Score
re: Friends? Or Maybe more?   7/13/2003

Some things we need to know are: Have you made any moves? Have your moves been rejected? How does she reject you if she does? Why aren't you going after other girls at the same time? Are you putting all your eggs in one basket?


0 Comments, 7 Views, 18 Votes ,5.17 Score
Never get caught - -CONDOM USE   7/11/2003

FancyDan2003: Hi Guys, So you've got a partner/wife and you want to fool around with someone else..(p.s this applies to male gay/bi guys and women fooling around too) why do we always think it’s easy to just take a few condoms from the batch we use with our partner/s eh? <br> The advice is: never use those one.. Always buy new ones on the way to your date and remember ...


1 Comments, 58 Views, 94 Votes ,8.36 Score
rm_maasm921 66 M
21  Articles
CHINESE GOOD LUCK TANTRA TOTEM   6/24/2003

THE FOLLOWING IS A CHINESE GOOD LUCK TANTRA TOTEM. <br> You may not believe in this but the advice is great! Read all the way down, you might learn something!!! <br> <br> ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. <br> <br> TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 97 Votes ,9.13 Score
rm_Atasteforfun 53 M
1  Article
Tell someone you love.   6/22/2003

The most important part in a couples sexuality is communication. If things aren't the greatest in bed, most people share the problems with friends. It's a great laugh and helps to relieve some stress, but it doesn't really do much good. If you are truly happy with the one you are with, and the only thing missing is sexually, talk to that person. You tell your friends that he/she won't ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 35 Votes ,6.94 Score
datmlvr 66 M
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re: the divorce mediator   5/26/2003

Mr Renaud, perhaps you didn't read what I wrote. I didn't say it was easy - I said quite whining and take charge. If a father wants to support his there is nothing stopping him from doing so except himself. Yeah I know the courts are biased. Yep, it's true judges regularly misinterpret the law. Yessir there are evil women in this world. I have plenty of fathers who have custody and ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 65 Votes ,6.24 Score
novembernight 65 F
0  Articles
Re: Never call the bitch again   5/23/2003

you said it there......the guy you met at the car wash....did he say WHEN he turned into a complete slob? maybe that is why his wife started cheating. as for you, it seems you arent telling all the story here. there are always 3 sides to every story...yours, hers and the truth....so far you have only said yours. and the same with mr. slob at the car wash. your wife gave you 3 . if you ...


0 Comments, 376 Views, 86 Votes ,6.54 Score
datmlvr 66 M
4  Articles
re: never call the bitch again   5/22/2003

I'm a divorce mediator who deals with a lot of these kinds of issues and if your aquaintance is in that bad a shape he can easily go back to court and have the care figures adjusted. The court is interested in knowing that YOUR get fed and have a roof over their heads. If that's not your primary interest then I suggest you DON'T HAVE . Whining about some ex wife who "drinks and parties ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 51 Votes ,6.39 Score
datmlvr 66 M
4  Articles
re why people quit calling   5/22/2003

I doubt very much that it has anything to do with you being nice people or not. I believe that most of the folks here are really NOT looking to develop long term relationships based on sex even if they think they are. It's fun. It's exciting. It's new. Just remember that a lot of the excitement is in the variety and the unique flavor of each encounter. Anything more tends to get ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 63 Votes ,8.63 Score
Re: Want him but afraid   5/9/2003

Honey, you don't need to worry about all the things you mentioned. The natural aroma of your pussy is a turn on to most men, as long as you keep it clean. The hair, the freckles, and all that are wonderful decorations to your body. As to whether your boyfriend will stay with you after you have sex with him, only he can answer that. Some guys get strange and leave a girl, but most will ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 94 Votes ,8.25 Score
68camarolover 45 C
1  Article
Our Profile, Us and why people quit calling   4/24/2003

We have had some success with Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat and other web sites, but there seems to be a running trend, we meet people and either after they meet us they quit calling or call once or twice then dissappear, with no apparent reason. Now I know we're not ken and barbie, but were not Zero's either. Both are intelligent, though I'm a GED and shes just starting some 2yr degree. Any advice or observations ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 139 Votes ,4.94 Score
DarkLameth 41 M
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advice for military teens and personel on here part 1   4/17/2003

ok we all know rule number one. <br> 1. never let the military find out what we like or do 2. never let your name be found out online unless your going to meet the person 3. if your like me (18-19) then you know that its hard to find a relationship if your a guy on here whos actually serious about a relationship. but the females here know that most military guys just want to ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 62 Votes ,2.21 Score
RE: Love and Dating   4/17/2003

You say things are okay now, so what is the future that each of you see that is so different? And the way you phrase that you want to "experience other people"? What does that mean? Are you wanting something in a relationship that you don't have or are you looking to be unattached so that you feel free to sleep with anyone? Are you looking to be independent so that you can just ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 42 Votes ,6.93 Score
Weare241 64 C
29  Articles
Re: Is it Possible to orgasm through anal?   4/14/2003

I also had a girlfriend who experienced intense orgasms with my cock in her ass. She couldn't take the pill and I disliked condoms. As a result, she'd occasionally let me finish bare-back deep in her ass as a treat and to keep things interesting. While I truly enjoyed banging her bottom from all angles, I quickly learned that ass-fucking her in the good old missionary position provided ...


0 Comments, 273 Views, 62 Votes ,8.55 Score
Weare241 64 C
29  Articles
Give Her a Hand!   4/13/2003

Like most average guys, my cock is only average sized. Yet, my wife has an insatiable pussy, learned about sex from an older cousin with a huge cock and wanted more. We experimented with dildoes. While she enjoyed the size, she found them to be too cold and impersonal. This led to increasingly intense fingering and finally fisting. We typically fuck until she asks to really get ...


5 Comments, 878 Views, 66 Votes ,7.88 Score
RE: Snatching Friend's Boyfriend   4/12/2003

What the hell are you saying? From all of the "friends" in this story, it sounds like there's 20 people involved. Try using pseudo-names for people (Mary, Betty, etc.) and explain things in some logical fashion (chronological is usually a good approach). Before you submit your article, stop and read it aloud. Does it make sense? Maybe I'm the only one that gave up half way through it ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 26 Votes ,7.66 Score
RE: High sex drive and low sex drive partner.   4/10/2003

Here's a man's perspective on the situation: First, start with an honest, heart-to-heart talk with him. Maybe you already have, but if not, give it a go. Explain your feelings for him and desire for more frequent physical intimacy. Let him know what that means to you. Also, inquire about his feelings, desires, etc. Try to find out if something is going on in his life - work issues, ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 34 Votes ,8.18 Score
RE: What is wrong with me   4/8/2003

Sorry, I don't have advice to "hook up" with someone. Instead I have advice on living. <br> First, you're still just a freshman. There's plenty of time left in life for sex. Just because you don't have a tale of conquest to tell doesn't mean that the situation is hopeless. And do you really believe everything your frat brothers are telling in their stories? I'm willing to ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 29 Votes ,8.26 Score
pamper1 62 F
25  Articles
Being a Slut.... renoslut2000   4/5/2003

Friday night as Archie and I went to dinner, I wanted to thoroughly tease the hell out of him since it had been such a long time just us. We had been staying at our girlfriends house in the SF Bay Area for the last week or so taking care of her boyfriend and another friend who had been having surgeries. <br> Our time there was spent on supporting and taking care of them ...


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RE: The commitment to love.   4/3/2003

Very good advice, writer. In the forums on this site, all the writers / inquiries are about sex - the physical aspect. What's being overlooked in most, if not all of these writings, is the emotional aspect of the relationship. I, for one, firmly believe in achieving the emotional relationship FIRST. As you say, it's about sharing feelings, dreams, goals, hopes, and fears. Yes, total ...


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RE: Is she really a virgin?   4/1/2003

This is the biggest argument against sex and waiting until you are older. You're too young to cope with the emotions and responsibilities that are naturally a part of such a mature experience. I agree with the previous writers that discussing this with friends is one of the lowest things you could do. My suggestion: Stop having sex right now. Wait until you know how you truly feel ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 27 Votes ,6.71 Score
Filthy 'Ol Bastard   4/1/2003

What can a girl do, when a very bad older man takes advantage of her and makes her feel thinks that she shouldn't? Why do men do that? Why...why....and why? Why try so hard if it's supposed to be nothing, it just confuses us?


0 Comments, 78 Views, 29 Votes ,2.54 Score
re what's sex with the right person   4/1/2003

I've had'm big and I've had'm small. There is such thing as too big and there is such thing as too small, both can be equally disturbing depending upon the severity of the infliction. Personally, I like them big, but I have never been more happy than with the standard 6 inches I love on a regular basis right now. Why? Because nothing makes me happier than looking into his beautiful hazel ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 21 Votes ,6.47 Score
datmlvr 66 M
4  Articles
more about old guys   3/31/2003

Ok let's face it - I'm an "old guy" The fact that I don't think I'm an "old guy" doesn't stop the world from seeing me that way. 20 year old women (with a very few exceptions) are not all excited to have sex with me. That is not a problem for me since I'm not all excited to have sex with them either. My turn on is mature women and I suppose that's a good thing but I still have a problem. ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 54 Votes ,8.50 Score
RE: Do pills increase penis size?   3/31/2003

No. There are no reputable clinical studies that prove that pills increase penis size. The only proven method to increase size is through costly and risky surgery. (Hardly worth it.) The advertisers get away with this because they are selling their product as a supplement. Supplements can be hawked with virtually no scientific proof that they really work. Forget about gaining size and ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 58 Votes ,8.71 Score
RE: spending 7 years with someone who still doesn't want to marry you   3/31/2003

I'm sorry to say that this is not a relationship. A relationship is a two-way street of communication, acceptance, support, and love. I don't read any of that in your letter. I'll be (painfully) honest here. It sounds like you are being used. You should not have to ask for affection. It should be coming freely and frequently. As for your work, if that's what you do and you enjoy it, ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 13 Votes ,6.00 Score
RE: Why do some women play games?   3/30/2003

Just like everyone else, women like to know that they are desirable. Typically, people pay special attention to the other person at the beginning of a relationship. That's when we primp and preen to make ourselves look good for the other person, men act chivalrous (don't we?), making sure that we impress the lady. After some time, more for some, less for others, the novelty wears thin or ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 32 Votes ,7.18 Score
CumfortCouple1 49 C
4  Articles
RE: HOW TO BRING IT UP   3/26/2003

Now, depending on how cool your chick is, this can be simple. Porn is very important in a sexual relationship. It keeps things frisky. Masturbate together, wake her up by masturbating on her while she sleeps. Every woman reaches a point where she gets turned on by a guy touching himself. It might turn her on. Buy her underware, not lingerie. Make her FEEL sexy! Communicate find out, ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 29 Votes ,5.35 Score
CumfortCouple1 49 C
4  Articles
RE:NEED HELP   3/26/2003

Believe it or not, some girls have small vaginas and sex is painful even with an average penis. Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat provides you with options to find people to find out first, cut through the B.S. Be Honest. You might find that tight one.


0 Comments, 19 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
CumfortCouple1 49 C
4  Articles
RE: OLD GUYS   3/26/2003

Older, experienced is better, yes. But, it's too bad that people think that physical perfection means "turn on". In reality, not this web sight, people have time to develop an attraction. By means of the way they carry themselves, manners, values, all of the way to the smile. Most people have been turned on, at least once in their life, by someone whom they wouldn't normally be ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 25 Votes ,5.23 Score
CumfortCouple1 49 C
4  Articles
RE: TRY ANAL   3/26/2003

First, most people are scared of the pain because of their awful anal devirgining. Most think they want it when having sex doggy, don't do it that way until you become a pro. No matter what penis size. Try missionary, keep chests close. This will keep stretching to minimum. Don't have him pull all of the way out once in when thrusting, until you are a pro. Or try riding on top keeping ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 39 Votes ,7.96 Score
re,,, spending 7 years..   3/22/2003

well, , obviously you know what you must do, , it is a shame that a man does not appreciate kind and affectionate woman as yourself, , im still looking for someone like that, , he was very lucky, and has thrown away a great friend and lover, , you know what they say, , you can lead a to water but you cant make him drink, , sometimes immiturity is blind to love and kindness, , well youve ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
direption69 54 F
20  Articles
Re: spending 7 years...   3/21/2003

Dear Spending 7 years, <br> I am just now recuperating from a similar circumstance. Get on with your life, move out. But do not fool yourself into thinking that if you make the money he will come. <br> I did, and now I am financially on my own. We got back together for a brief interlude, and now I make more than he does. Which it turns out; is worse than making less ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 12 Votes ,6.69 Score
rm_cavezag69 34 M
2  Articles
DO I REALLY NEED HELP   3/20/2003

ok i have a small dick i can admit that but wut can i do 2 improve in it when i jackoff i cum like in 5 min and im still a vergin im just here im new in this web site and im 19 im not ugly nor im "HOT" but im 2 dam NICE sometimes 2 dam imature i really need some advice please help!!


0 Comments, 28 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
rm_cavezag69 34 M
2  Articles
DO I REALLY NEED HELP pt 2   3/20/2003

ok if im still a vergin an noone has helped me do you think it would matter 2 the person that would want 2 do it with me because i just noticed i jackoff like a jack rabbit do you think i need 2 take it slow and take my time and maybe ill enjoy it more well i dont know im still a vergin but please some one help me i need a big dick or some stanima


0 Comments, 67 Views, 13 Votes ,2.64 Score
lilbigdawg57 67 C
1  Article
PLAYING WITH MY PUSSY(masturbation)   3/16/2003

i'm a 23 yr old sexual active blk woman very sexy and attractive.i'm always playing with my pussy like 20-30 times a day cumming all the time.seriously can that damage me in the future to a point where as though my pussy won't have any feelings in it.will it stop being sensitive?and me and my man fuck all the time also so i'm way beyond normal..like 10 or 12 times a week..


0 Comments, 102 Views, 37 Votes ,7.55 Score
snowmanhot 91 M
31  Articles
Re: I need to cum   3/15/2003

Why not let your b/f make you cum during foreplay. He would be thrilled for you to have your pleasure. Then later you will be more in tune with your body and cum while he in fucking you as well.


0 Comments, 24 Views, 15 Votes ,5.89 Score
Re: overworked clit   3/12/2003

Come on, I will agree that you have strayed from the beaten path. However, when the right man cums along, you will not have any problem getting off. Think about it, desire, and the right frame of mind is essential.


0 Comments, 39 Views, 14 Votes ,2.02 Score
rm_SWSunset64 48 F
3  Articles
First time for anal   3/11/2003

I tried getting this question answered before, before they didn't publish it, so I'm trying it here. I am going to try anal sex soon for the first time. Any advice on this subject?


9 Comments, 203 Views, 21 Votes ,7.21 Score
NickKiwi 59 M
3  Articles
Buba cars? A clear refutation!   3/4/2003

I have seen many posts in this section lately with women accusing men of having small equipment, based on the car they drive. The men seem to fire back that just because they drive big powerful 4 wheelers or luxurious land yachts, that they still are well endowed. <br> Well friends, I have come here tonight to put this myth to rest forever! <br> Yes, Ladies and ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
help with Blowjobs   3/2/2003

I need advice and help, I want to give my boyfriend the best blowjob he has ever had but I have very little experience. I have a gag reflex that has always got in the way I was told it takes practice.. does anyone have any advice?


0 Comments, 65 Views, 30 Votes ,5.30 Score
garethadr 52 M
4  Articles
pregnancy position   3/1/2003

well laying on the side doesn't exactly work if she is laying on her side. have her lay onher side and keep the leg that is on the bed straight adn then bend the other legand then have her roll until the other leg is on the bed and she is comfortable and enter her in this position. then you will be straddling her one leg and the other leg can move for comfort. Garethadr


0 Comments, 65 Views, 12 Votes ,6.86 Score
garethadr 52 M
4  Articles
RE my own cum   2/27/2003

i like my own cum, its from me and a part of me, probably safer than the town water. when a woman gives me head and she swallows, i ask her to share the sensation by kissing me. When i empty my load into a woman, only after we know each other a long time do we not use a condom, i enjoy licking her clean after. my juices and her juices together make for an interesting cocktail. when ever a ...


0 Comments, 90 Views, 56 Votes ,6.63 Score
garethadr 52 M
4  Articles
How to get YOUR man to let me play with his bum   2/27/2003

Do some research, what you are looking for is direct stimulation of the prostate gland, if you can show him the paperwork on that he just may let you. when the prostate is stimulated from within the anus, it causes one of the most extreme orgasms a man can have. i myself cant stimulate myself, but i sometimes wear an egg vibrator when masturbating or having sex to intensify it. <br> ...


0 Comments, 94 Views, 19 Votes ,5.10 Score
rm_mijnenig 74 M
2  Articles
RE: How to Take Away his FEAR/Guilt   2/25/2003

I think you need to see the shrink! So he is fighting himself- and you feel he is sick? What about you - hanging on to this relationship which you are complaining about? Adjust to what & how he is or get out and find someone who suits you!


0 Comments, 78 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
timothy_angel 41 M
1  Article
Sex Ed.   2/17/2003

I am writing this as a straight male who is currently in college in agreement with the article “Best Advice Yet…” I will say that the posession and use of writing skills is a huge factor in catching somebody’s eye on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat. But, in addition to this, I will also say that an overall education is extremely important. I’ve found that many women I expressed an ...


0 Comments, 189 Views, 22 Votes ,7.33 Score
Re: Eating my own cum   2/7/2003

Personally, I believe this is a common issue with many men including myself. I am a 36 yr old mwm who enjoys masturbation as much as the next guy. I have much of the same feelings as you and often when masturbating I fantasize about eating my cum which brings me to a tremendous orgasm. After I finish cumming though I don’t always follow through, the urge goes away. This is how I have over ...


1 Comments, 780 Views, 75 Votes ,7.09 Score
rm_VaGuyNow 89 M
1  Article
Shaving   1/21/2003

Those of us considering or actually shaving should look into much better and newer ways. The latest is a laser treatment that will do away with that hair painlessly and probably for good. Before, your choice for this type of results was electrolysis that I am told hurts and is expensive. Men and women are using it on all parts of their bodies to rid themselves of hair in unwanted places. ...


0 Comments, 124 Views, 40 Votes ,6.11 Score
JoeyIs4You 70 M
1  Article
Beware of Heather!   1/17/2003

Hey guys...beware of all "Heather" ads! They will either start out with Hi I'm Heather or end with Heather. They're all bogus. If you answer them you'll get an offer to go to thier site and PAY! If you use the "last 100" list you can see lots of different pictures but all the profiles are signed by Heather. It's phoney....don't waste your time!


0 Comments, 114 Views, 102 Votes ,9.62 Score
pamper1 62 F
25  Articles
How to give a Quality Blowjob   1/16/2003

FELLATIO or How to give a Quality Blowjob <br> A 14 Lesson Tutorial <br> LESSON ONE I am not sure if it was because I grew up in a household with brothers or whether I would have had the same feelings and inclinations had I been an only but I do know that from the time of my earliest memories I have been fascinated with penises. Let's talk about the "basic penis." ...


0 Comments, 501 Views, 195 Votes ,9.75 Score
abondon AIDS   1/12/2003

<br> <br> Dear friends, As we all know that Hiv has become the life threatening diseases, we should always take the care of each partner and avoid AIDS. Condom is the better way to have the safest sex and one should bring into use withput fail. Thanking you all, <br> <br> Yours truely, ...


1 Comments, 256 Views, 41 Votes ,7.55 Score
rjh72274 60 M
2  Articles
discrimination!   12/31/2002

i would like to comment on the most discriminated segment of society, the single white male. many ads i see on Erosmatch - The Worlds Largest Online Adult Personals for Adult Dating, Swingers, and Adult Chat specifically say no single men need apply. unless your black with a huge penis, they may make an exception. look people single males are in need of love and understanding also. ladies at least give the man a reply of a polite no, instead of ignoring his advance. we have ...


0 Comments, 250 Views, 56 Votes ,7.91 Score
pamper1 62 F
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Anal Activity Tutorial   12/30/2002

ANAL INTERCOURSE This tutorial is for all of you who kept asking about anal intercourse. I finally got busy and put something together. I am hoping this will help you out on your sexual journey and that the information I provide for you here will prove useful. Those of you who have been here before will notice that this article doesn't look the same as it ...


12 Comments, 13440 Views, 666 Votes ,8.82 Score
Pelvic Toner Exercises   12/27/2002

I've recently bought a pelvic toner resistance device that I've been using for the past three weeks. So far I'm up to 90 of the 180 recommended reps and I can already tell that my "grip" is stronger. <br> What I want to know is........has anyone else had success with this type of device? And, do you have any recommendations on how to speed up the process........or have you had ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
why she wont tell truth   12/25/2002

Some years back my friend and i were getting drunk with my wife. I asked her to jack my friend off and she said no. Later on when i would go to the bathroom to piss i could see her playing with his crotch. When i would come back in she would stop. When they thought i passed out she pulled her thong to the side and rode him for what seemed like hours. I asked her about it later that week and ...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 44 Votes ,6.87 Score
atruebond 39 M
3  Articles
RE: advise please   12/20/2002

My thought is, once a cheater always a cheater. Unless, both of you have agreed to be swingers, its over. I would literally throw my wife out in the street if we previously did not discuss sex outside of marrage. And the fact that she lied to you more than once about the same person, and she, dumb enough not to cover her tracks better than that? Dude, she played you. Dont be those ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
rm_ACEMAN100 46 M
1  Article
TRIAL SEPERATION   12/11/2002

I have been in a relationship for five years. I really love the woman I am with but she wants to try living apart for a while. She says that we don't talk like we used to and that we are not best friends like we used to be. She says that there is not another man but she has been keeping from me that she has some male friends she talks to during the day when I am at work. I guess what I am ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 23 Votes ,5.00 Score
hurting...   12/6/2002

I see all this "hurting" crap for whatever reason, as for women, if your a virgin, yes, there is pain, the first insert which is replaced by a nice warm heat and if your partner is gentle with any stamina that will be followed with orgasims, as for you other "experienced?" knowledgable women, who obviously dont know their own bodies, there are two(2) basic physical reasons you would have ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 51 Votes
rm_shemaleVIDA 61 F
14  Articles
STRAIGHT MEN WHO SHAVE BODY HAIR   12/4/2002

WHY DO STRAIGHT GUYS FEEL THAT BY SHAVING THEIR BODY HAIR OFF AND SHAVING THEIR PUBES SOMEHOW MAKES THEM "CLEANER" IF YOU WANT TO BE CLEAN? TAKE A SHOWER! DONT SHAVE LIKE A WOMAN. PLEASE. THERES A LOT OF US WHO LIKE HAIRY MASCULINE MEN! DONT GET DE-MASCULINIZED


1 Comments, 133 Views, 103 Votes ,1.74 Score
Very bi-curious   11/30/2002

I am a married man who is very bi-curious. my wife says that i can be with a guy if i want to. i am having trouble finding the right one. how do i ask someone i know if i can give them head? i also cross-dress in women's clothing and love it. i have sucked my own cock, so i know i will like it.


0 Comments, 42 Views, 78 Votes ,3.98 Score
PORNO??   11/7/2002

How do you get into porno? I don't know where to start.


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